Friday, December 4, 2009

Simple things which can make a profound statement

I received this story from a dear friend via email this morning. I do not have the author to give them the credit. It is rather lenghty, but worth the read.  The many things it teaches will be evident, but one thing in particular that struck my heart, was how this particular mother was so "in-tune" with the Lord, that the simple things in life could develop into such a great teaching skill.  I pray that all Christian, daughter, mothers, aunts, sister, grandmothers see the importance of God in all aspects of our daily lives.  What a profound impact something so small can do. Have a wonderful week!   ~Tina
Carrot-Egg-Coffee



A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee...You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.


A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up; she was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.


Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.


In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.


Turning to her daughter, she asked, ' Tell me what you see.'


'Carrots, eggs, and coffee,' she replied.


Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard- boiled egg. Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, 'What does it mean, mother?'


Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.


'Which are you?' she asked her daughter. 'When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?


Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?


Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart? Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.


When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?


May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.


The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.


When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.


You might want to send this message to those people who mean something to you, to those who have touched your life in one way or another; to those who make you smile when you really need it; to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down; to those whose friendship you appreciate; to those who are so meaningful in your life.

If you don’t send it, you will just miss out on the opportunity to brighten someone's day with this message!


May we all be COFFEE!!!!!!

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Our Annual Christmas Letter 2009-Year in Review

Merry Christmas 2009

From Jim & Tina Wilson


It is hard to believe that we’re sending out our “end of the year” as it seems like yesterday that we were sharing our news from 2008. Though the time continues to fly by so quickly, we have enjoyed another good year.

 


Quick updates on our children, Megan and Lindsay just celebrated their 1st anniversary and have a “new addition” to their family….Morgan their King Charles Cavalier Cocker Spaniel. She is a delight..though her “brother” Ben-the cat, isn’t too sure about the whole thing. They continue to work at their same positions and are enjoying their home and life as a married couple. They are active in their community and church. Matt is having a remarkable year with several changes. He is renting a condo in the city (Wilmington), which is something he has always wanted to do and decided now was a good time before the ultimate purchasing of a home. Matt started working as the coordinator for Humanities at Wilmington University in September on a half-time basis. He will begin his doctoral program this coming September. He is continuing the work with the campus ministry, but on a half-time basis through May of 2009. He loves his new position and continues to enjoy his interaction with the campus ministry. As always he is involved in many community and church activities. He gets to NYC to visit friends, but not near enough for his liking. We are very proud of the good things our children are doing and the way they care for others. They live only 20 minutes away, but in opposite directions of our home.

 


In February we had to put our little Samson down. He became very ill and there was nothing more we could do. He was a devoted companion and a major part of our family. We enjoyed having him in our lives for his 10 ½ years. He is missed. Jim continues with his position at Wilmington University and enjoys it to the fullest. He has had the opportunity to do some teaching this year and really enjoys getting into the classroom setting from time to time. Tina had a “short retirement” from her private music instruction and started teaching one-day a week again this September. She really missed her teaching. Besides her volunteer work and weekly activities, she continues to take courses at Wilmington University.

 


Jim and Tina have been blessed with good health this year…except gaining several pounds that weren’t there last year. We are very thankful for our health, especially that Jim continues to maintain his kidney function with only a slight decrease in function over the year. He continues to see the specialist every 3-months so we will always be on top of any changes towards leading to an eventual kidney transplant.

 


We once again organized a team for the Annual Delaware Kidney Walk. As you know, Tina has been working with the National Kidney Foundation seeking to start a local chapter for the past several years. This year TEAM WILSON was one of the top 4 fundraising teams. We were humbled by the donations and participation with us at the walk. Overall, the walk raised more than $90,000 to date and we thank everyone who was a part of TEAM WILSON!

 


We had the opportunity to work with Matt, who directed The Intermediate-I session (10-11 year olds) at Camp Manatawny this past July. This year we had our entire family there for some of the week and look forward to this summer when all 5 of us will be working Intermediate I. As you may be aware, we directed this same session for many years and this responsibility has now been passed onto our son! It makes us very proud to see our children as leaders of a camp session. God is so good!


Travel wise, we took our annual winter trip in February to Longboat Key, FL and many day and weekend trips. Our trips were somewhat limited because of Tina’s class load schedule and Jim’s teaching and work schedule. We did get to spend several weekends in Lewes, DE, which is a place we love to go to “just get away.” We enjoyed time with close friends and visiting with long-time friends throughout this year. We would LOVE for you to visit us. The door is always open (when we’re here), so come for a visit!


As any homeowner, there are always projects. The biggest project was adding on to our deck. We had a friend do most of the work for us after Jim helped with the foundation and flooring. We have enjoyed this new addition and look forward to using it as much as the weather allows throughout the coming years.


May your holiday season be filled with time spent with family and friends. May you see all the daily gifts that God so graciously provides. May you be content and at peace with your choices in your life.

 


We would Love to hear from you all! Merry Christmas, Jim & Tina

"...Fix your thoughts on what is true and good and right...Think about things that are pure and lovely, and dwell on the fine, good things in others.  Think about all you can praise God for and be glad about it." ~ Phil 4:8 (TLB)






Friday, November 20, 2009

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year...or is it?

Though I prefer warmer weather, low humidity with a warm breeze and sunshine.  This time of the year IS one of the Most Wonderful times of the year. I love the music, the goodwill, the serving of others. We are a country that openingly and freely show our Thanksgiving more freely.  We also this time of the year, feel more free to share "The Story", which then usually leads to our personal testimony of our relationship to Jesus. Those expressions at this time are what makes it the Most Wonderful Time of the Year.  We as Christians are blessed to be "Thankful Always" and are to share our faith and "The Story" all throughout the year. 

Many times, we get "caught up" in the hustle and bustle of things (like Martha did preparing rather than sitting at Jesus' feet.  She lost the balance of the experience.) and feel these are the Most important things.  I want to share a personal thought for this time of year: "Don't let me get so busy that I forget to show gratefulness to others. Help me to especially appreicate the loved ones God has given to me."

May this thought be a reminder to all who read my post.

“Give Thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.” Ps. 106:1

ENJOY THE COMING HOLIDAYS, BUT REMEMBER WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT ♥

I'm I doing the best...

...I am in an indepth weekly Bible Study through an organization called BSF Bible Study Fellowship.  We are studying the book of  John.  The Lecture Speaker, Nancy was doing a presentation on the 4th chapter of John from verse 31-54.  She gave us several points that were useful, but the most interesting information was a list of 10 ways to see "What is God's Will For Me".  I wanted to share these points with you so you can further work towards your personal relationship with God.  I want all aspects of my life to represent what God's purpose is for my life.  He gave me this opportunity and I want to glorify Him with my life.  Check out these 10 points, I think they may be useful in your life too.


  1. Choose to do His will and make myself available
  2. Reconize the different kinds of works and different times (seasons) in our lives.
  3. Ask God specifically what He wants me to do: then Listen
  4. Examine my heart, what do I want to do, and does it glorify God
  5. Examine your abilities
  6. Watch for opportunities: when doors open gently push and watch what God opens
  7. Talk to someone who knows you well: get consult or advice
  8. Wait for God's timing; but not until everything is perfect
  9. Except a sense of peace with my decision
  10. Know that God desires to show me His Will for my life.
The speaker went into explanation of each of these points for better clarification.  These points are nothing new or unusal, but they can provide direction when there is a need in life for a more direction.

Romans 12:1-2 "Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will."

This scripture basically sums up what I need to do to know what God's will is for my life.  A prayer could based on this scripture could be, "Show me God what you want me to do today.  Show me your will for me."  If we ask He will answer!   Have a great day!