Living R Lives Together

Simple and Normal

2012-02-01T16:14:00.000-05:00

Not much to share, but thankful for this time of "normalcy". I'm back to using my blog as a dairy or sorts for sharing and encouragement. My schedule is getting back to a routine, which isn't saying much because I don't have a set routine anymore with being "retired" from teaching. I'm blessed with SOME and the emphasis on some flexibility throughout my week.

I am loving having my Mimi days throughout my weeks. Jackson has a great way of making all the routine events of a day extra-special. I have been able to look at our great world through the eyes of our almost 16-month-old grandson. He is pure joy indeed!!

It reminds me of the scripture where Jesus mentions that we must become like one of them (speaking of the children) to truly understand His Love: Matthew 19:12-15). The simplicity of Jesus is something that I am continually evolving in my personal walk. Jesus had his plan while on earth and he continues to have his plan through the use of my hands/feet/heart. His message for us is an active message, not one of only corporate worship. I like being able to serve as well as getting fed or served to through my time of large and small group gatherings.

I'm involved in two small group studies, one is about the ascent Psalms of the Bible, which leads to a greater experience in not only my corporate, but daily worship. My other small group study is about creating, polishing, molding, stretching, even changing my way of spiritual leadership and how I lead in every aspect of my life. My form of leadership is a form of spiritual one and that type of leadership is the best to cultivate in my professional, and personal life. I'm blessed to attend these studies, as I was on a bit of a sabbatical while my "hat" of caretaker was the priority for several months.

We are experiencing some lovely weather since it has been officially winter. I know that we have several more weeks of winter, but every day like the days we are having this week (upper 60's), is one less day of ice, sleet, snow, freezer temps.

I am thankful for the place that I am in my life and I can see that God's Plan is working as I continue to learn more through his Word, as well as sometimes waiting, being still, and/or being active in Him!

LivingRlives as you continue to live yours!

Blessings and Prayers,
~Tina

A Note to Our First Born-Happy 30th Matt

2012-01-12T23:14:00.000-05:00

Happy 30th Birthday Son <3

The following is a note that I wrote for our son, Matthew James Wilson for his 30th birthday celebration on January 13, 2012. It is hard to imagine in may aspects that he is no longer a child. He has been a source of strength, pride, and having him as our son has only made us become better individuals. We are grateful for the relationship that we have with our children. We look forward many more times of celebration in the years to come! GIG

Dear Son,

Today is a great milestone in your life, your 30th birthday! What a blessing you have been even before you were born. May you realize what a special person you are and how having you in our lives and being your parents is one of the greatest gifts we could have ever received! You are blessed with a close relationship with your family and you are blessed with some very close and connected friends. There are many more special moments ahead for you. Today’s celebration is the continuation of special times that God has in store for you.

This has been a momentous year for us and without any doubts we know that God has great plans for you and your life. May you continue to pursue your God-given goals and stretch your relationship and faith in Him. May your conviction and faith keep you strong as you pursue your interests and goals. Also, know that we are here for you whatever life may bring and we know that God has great plans for you as you hope in your future ideas and plans.

It is a privilege and a blessing to not only be your parents, but to be your friend.

Happy 30th Birthday Matt!

We LOVE You,

MOM & DAD

1/13/12

"It is one thing to show your child the way, and a harder thing to then stand out of it. " ~Robert Brault

January 2, 2012

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Happy New Year! The freshness of a "new beginning" is always a time of renewal of not only setting new goals, but also a time of re-dedication to what is a priority on personal levels in so many individuals lives.

This new year beginning for me personally is a time of getting back to "my normal". We have had several months of results, early detection discovery, compatibilities, self-less gift of a kidney, surgeries, healing, continuing recoveries with prayer-answered results. Through all of these months, I have been the care-giver. I'm so blessed to be able to do just that and could not have imagined anyone else serving in that capacity. BUT, it is a bit of an adjustment as the new year begins: Jim is almost 4 months post-op his kidney transplant and continues to do very well in his progress (he begins his new position and full-time schedule this week) and our son, Matt is doing remarkably well being only almost 2-months post-op pancreatic cancer surgery (he will be returning to work as well this week)!

My resolution for 2012 is to be less intense with the "little incidences" that happen in life and continue to rely on His plan for me and those I love (as He has shown me ten-fold these especially these past several months). I have been forced in a sense, to wait on the Lord, and after all these months, I see how He always provides the needs that we have, even when I don't see it immediately, thus the waiting enters in again! My first change for the new year, is to work on getting back to a normal schedule that still surrounds my family, but not with the intensity of the past year has been. I also want to be a better, which to me means, less of me and more of Jesus being seen in me! I want to stretch my creative-side more this year and keep life in balance when wearing the several hats I love and continually wear! I have realized the older I become that when I take care of myself, I am much more able to serve in more areas, which is something I have a passion to do--serving others through many avenues as well as I'm able to better myself when I take time for ME in the process of personal growth.

2011 was a year of so much good and our family knows that things could have had such a different outcome, but it is good to move on to another new year! Our whole family has grown in our spiritual walk this past year and look forward to using this growth in our daily tasks in the months to come. 2012 has many opportunities for the Wilson Family and I look forward to all that God has in store for us. May you obtain your resolutions with the help of your source. I know that I will work towards my goals because my Source is the center of my existence-Jesus is Lord!

~Tina

"Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. ~Phil 3:12-14

Jim and Tina's 2011 End-of-the-year Newsletter

2011-12-03T13:39:00.003-05:00

May peace be your gift at Christmas and your Blessing all year through!

As we look back over the year in preparation for writing this letter, 2011 has been a rather typical year for the Wilson family with events such as birthdays and anniversary (31st) celebrations, our annual February vacation in Florida, cheering and jeering the Phillies and Eagles. However, this year has been very unusual for reasons which will be elaborated upon below.

In April, Tina called Jim while he was on a business trip in San Antonio, Texas that Stephanie Moglia has been identified as a potential kidney donor. (For more information, go to http://www.dccmf.org/r_newsletters.html and see the Fall, 2011 newsletter). At that time, little did we know that the transplant would later in the year, become nearly an all-consuming event.

The summer months brought some mixed news as we celebrated regarding Lindsay gaining employment following several months of searching. At the same time, Megan had a disconcerting medical event which damped things a bit. We also enjoyed trips to Longwood and Winterthur Gardens as well as a marvelous fireworks and music display event with close friends. We all served as staff members at the week of Sr. High 1 session at Camp Manatawny. In August our family spent a week together at a resort in Southern Delaware and had a fantastic time!

Late August, Matt was taken to the emergency room for what turned out to be a kidney stone and he needed to follow up on what appeared to be a shadow on his pancreas. It was later learned that Matt had a malignant tumor in his pancreas which is extremely rare for someone his age. In November he had the tumor removed and we are rejoicing that his prognosis is very good, he is cancer-free and that he will only need to have follow-up exams yearly for the next 5 years as his ongoing treatment. As he has said a number of times, "thank God for the Kidney stone!”

In September, two significant events occurred. Jim was promoted to the position of Vice President for Academic Affairs at Wilmington University and he had a very successful kidney transplant! Interesting timing one might say!

A milestone was reached in October when our grandson, Jackson turned one year old! This brought some much needed joy for all!

Now it is December and as we write this letter, both Matt and Jim are doing well. Jim is working half days and Matt is recovering at our home. Tina has been very busy serving as nurse, social worker and main care giver for the last 4 months and looks forward to giving up such intense roles in the coming New Year!

While we look forward to a less stressful 2012, the events of this year remind us that we are so blessed and thankful! Our family, friends, neighbors, brothers and sisters in Christ, and coworkers who have showered us with much love and support, as well as loving individuals such as Stephanie, Bobby and their families who provided care and encouragement for them as she gave such a wonderful gift to our family through her donation of her kidney. Our list could go on!

May you and your family find much happiness and joy during this holiday season and the coming year!

The Wilsons ~ Jim and Tina

It's coming soon

2011-12-01T20:46:00.000-05:00

Very soon, I will be posting our annual "end-of-the-year" newsletter on this blog! I'm sure you all can hardly wait!

~Tina

I'm still blogging!

2011-10-27T13:47:00.000-04:00

It's been since August that I last posted on this particular blog. Life has been full and every changing, but we are thankful for the God we serve, who is never changing and always there for us! I have been doing blogging on another blog. Please stop by and see what is going on in The Wilson household right now. We are enjoying the daily blessings that are provided and are thankful for the results that our "life events" continue to take. Stop by and see what's going on! I plan to keep this blog going in time, so don't give up on me yet, just need a few months on my other blog. Check back on this one from time to time...I may drop a few lines of my personal babble as well. GISG

~Tina

http://thejourneyofouramazinggift.blogspot.com/

It's been a LONG time

2011-08-02T10:00:00.002-04:00

I can't believe that it has been since February that I wrote anything on my blog! Life is full and I'm blessed. I don't know where to begin since my last posting.

The best news has been that we have been blessed with a live donor for Jim. We give God all the glory for this occurring. Lord willing, the transplant will be the end of September! We are filled with many emotions and saying we are so grateful and thankful doesn't seem like enough. Continue to keep this process in your prayers as we approach the day. It has been wonderful to see God's hand in this chapter in our lives. GIG

The greatest personal opportunity began around the time I last posted. I am blessed to watch our first (only at this time) grandchild on a very half-time basis, while his mommy and daddy work throughout the week. This "gift" has been nothing short of pure joy. How blessed I am to be home and be able to enjoy him several days a week. It is hard to believe that he will be 10 months old the 10th of this month! This year is flying by!!

Throughout the last several months we have been able to visit with friends, family, go for weekend getaways, as well as just enjoy being home from time to time. We have celebrated special days of happiness, and days of sadness within our circle of family and friends. This summer and song by Laura Story has touched my heart and I must say is one of my all-time favorite songs and messages! Enjoy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eOOFAaUGfRE

Hopefully it won't be as long the next time I share my babblings and thoughts. I know that I've grown this year in my spiritual walk as alot of the events of this year I have not been able to be the one in control: God has shown me that only He truly is the one in control and I am thankful that I have, for the most part, been able to "let go and LET GOD". The fullness of our lives hasn't been as high pressured or filled with as many anxious ways of thinking for me as past full years and I owe that God and allowing Him to work through my day through me rather than me trying to do it alone!

Life is full. Life is good. Life is a blessing and I'm thankful for the everyday blessings that are more and more apparent to me! Ps. 118:24

~Tina

Sunsets and other favorite things from our trip!

2011-02-24T22:46:00.003-05:00

Here are some pictures that I promised from our Longboat Key, Fl.

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=266967&id=740832712&l=90c34ef9c6

Enjoy! I only had my little digital, I had plans to take my new camera along and left it on my file cabinet in my office...next trip I'll take that camera as well.

~Tina

Summertime!

2011-02-22T14:58:00.000-05:00

Summertime...well at least for a few days! Jim and I are on our annual trek in Longboat Key, FL. Alot of down time, reading, relaxing, riding our bikes, walking the beach, and soaking up the sunshine! We're having a little bit of summertime and enjoying it to the best of our ability. I'll post some pictures in my next post. I marvel at the Creator and the gifts of creativity that He provides us through nature and the seasons!! Here's a "sneak peak" of some of the pictures I'll be sharing!

"How precious to me are your thoughts,oh God! How vast is the sum of them! Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand-when I awake, I am still with you." Psalm 119:17-188

A walk along the gulf. It is always a great time of reflection and "talking" to God for me!

I so Palm Trees so Much!

Sunset from outside our villa

Winterwonderland

2011-01-27T23:13:00.000-05:00

Those of you who know me, really know that I prefer being near water, warmer temps (not extreme humidity), and sunshine. I even enjoy a warm rain to replenish the earth. Last night and early this morning we had another snowstorm in our area. This particular snow was the type of snow that is scene on portraits of wintry settings. The snow, when untouched, was beautiful and clean! This type of snow is a visual reminder of how I'm cleansed and cleaned because of the sacrifice that Jesus made for me on the cross!
Below are some pictures that I took around our home. As the day went on the untouched snow became "touched" and started turning quickly into snirt. For those of you who are sure about the word snirt, it's a combination of snow and dirt!
The snow fall was beautiful, even though I prefer liquid sunshine in the form of spring and summer rains. God continues to provide all our needs in our lives as well as in our planet! If you are blessed to have changing seasons in the region you live, enjoy all of them, there is a beauty even in those seasons that aren't especially the seasons you prefer. (I look forward to posting spring and summer pictures in the next few months!) It's like our daily lives, some days are better than others, but all days that we're given are gifts from above!

"He spreads the snow like wool and scatters the frost like ashes." ~ Ps. 147:16

1st Born-Happy Birthday Matthew James Wilson

2011-01-13T14:40:00.000-05:00

"she treasured all these things in her heart." ~ Luke 2:51b

This is one of my favorite verses in the entire Bible. It might not have any impact on you, but to me it is a verse that describes the type of person I am. I'm blessed to be a christian, daughter, wife, mother and grandmother and I find blessing in serving others. These "titles" mean more to me than what occupation I hold or have held. This scripture was stated about Jesus' mother Mary, who we know some about, but basically didn't have a life of her own. She was a woman of servanthood! From the first time she is mentioned in the Bible one can see her servant-type heart. She is okay with being "Jesus' mother" or "Joseph's". She didn't need to be called by her occupation, but by what she treasured more in her heart. She treasured her life as a servant of God. By this statement, Mary is very relatable to me...she was a christian, daughter, wife, and mother! Her life was totally changed with her 1st born and she found blessings in serving.

Today our first born turned 29!! I have been pondering or treasuring many thoughts in my mind and heart today. The thrilled of being pregnant for the first time, being too far away from extended family to just "go over" when there were concerns or just the desire to be together (though we made numerous trips as did mom and dad during those years). Memories of living on a "shoe-string", but seeing how God always provided for us through the "angels" He gave us here on earth! Enjoying the elation of being a parent as well as the uncertainity at the same time.

Matthew James Wilson was born on the 13th of January 1982. His presence was with us for 9months before, but when we actually got to touch and hold him, how our lives where changed for the good! We have been blessed by the adventure that started with parenthood and I often reminence and store up memories and treasures that are too numerous to share and blessed to continue to "treasure all these things".

Matt has grown into a Christian leader, mentor, fabulous son, brother, grandson, uncle and someday will be a fabulous husband and father. Besides being our son, he is now our friend and confidant. We are so proud of the man is has become and how he continues to grow in His daily walk.

I am blessed to be "Matt's Mom", Megan's Mom, Lindsay-Mother-in-law, Jim's Wife, Jackson's Mimi....you get what I'm saying.

"Intense love does not measure, it just gives."

Scriptures for starting 2011

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I found this website and thought it was very worthwhile for the hopes, anticipations, unknowns, for the New Year! Have a blessed New Year ~Tina

New Birth - A Living Hope

1 Peter 1:3 ~ Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead. (NIV)

Hope for the Future
Jeremiah 29:11 ~"For I know the plans I have for you," says the LORD. "They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. (NLT)

A New Creation
2 Corinthians 5:17 ~Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. (NKJV)

A New Heart
Ezekiel 36:25-27 ~Then I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean. Your filth will be washed away, and you will no longer worship idols. And I will give you a new heart with new and right desires, and I will put a new spirit in you. I will take out your stony heart of sin and give you a new, obedient heart. And I will put my Spirit in you so you will obey my laws and do whatever I command. (NLT)

Forgetting the Past
Philippians 3:13-14 ~No, dear brothers and sisters, I am still not all I should be, but I am focusing all my energies on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I strain to reach the end of the race and receive the prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us up to heaven. (NLT)

Learning from Past Mistakes
Hebrews 12:10-11 ~Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. (NIV)

Wait on the Lord
Psalm 37:7 ~Be still in the presence of the LORD, and wait patiently for him to act. Don't worry about evil people who prosper or fret about their wicked schemes. (NLT)

Isaiah 40:31 ~Yet those who wait for the LORD will gain new strength; they will mount up with wings like eagles, they will run and not get tired, they will walk and not become weary. (NASB)

God's Timing is Perfect
Ecclesiastes 3:11 ~ He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end. (NIV)

Each New Day is Special
Lamentations 3:22-24 ~ The unfailing love of the LORD never ends! By his mercies we have been kept from complete destruction. Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each day. I say to myself, "The LORD is my inheritance; therefore, I will hope in him!" (NASB)

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2011

2010-12-29T09:46:00.000-05:00

Another Year Is Dawning

Another year is dawning,

Dear Master, let it be,

In working, or in waiting,

Another year with Thee.

Another year of mercies,

Of faithfulness and grace;

Another year of gladness

In the shining of Thy face.

Another year of progress,

Another year of praise,

Another year of proving

Thy presence all the days.

Another year of service,

Of witness of Thy love,

Another year of training

For holier work above.

Another year is dawning,

Dear Master, let it be

On earth, or else in heaven

Another year for Thee.

--Francis Ridley Havergal (1874)

Happy New Year ~ Tina

'Tis the Season!!

2010-12-19T22:10:00.003-05:00

We are having a great time with our grandson, Jackson. I'm not sure if I've mentioned him previously in my blog (LOL, I know...but what do you expect...I'm a Mimi now!!!)

Having a great time buying outfits and this time of year is no different. It's his first Christmas and they have wonderful outfits for little boys too!

Just look at how precious he is in his holiday outfits. Though you will be looking at the changes of outfits, you also will be seeing how amazing life is...Jackson is growing and and he is just exceptional.

We are so blessed to have our children and now our grandchild live so close. We enjoy time together as a family unit and we're thankful for the time. We are trying to live our life by enjoying the small moments in our day-to-day happenings as well as those times of planning for activities.

May you see the beauty in the ordinary day. God Bless and have a blessed Christmas season!!

Our Christmas Letter 2010

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The Merry Christmas 2010 Newsletter from Jim & Tina Wilson

The most exciting and life changing event for our family was the birth of our first grandchild! Jackson Lindsay Rice was born to our daughter, Megan and son-in-love, Lindsay on Sunday, October 10th. That’s right—10.10.10! He is such a joy. Grumps and Mimi as we are now called are head-over-heels in love with this little guy. His uncle Matt started buying Philadelphia sport-team outfits before he was born!

Megan and Lindsay just celebrated their 2nd anniversary and have been enjoying being first-time parents. They are adjusting to this new way of life with and find being parents very rewarding.

Matt also has had some major changes in his life. He is working fulltime as the Chair for the Humanities Department at Wilmington University. He is also well into a doctoral program. His passion for serving continues to be something he shares with others through his community involvement.

Jim continues with his position at Wilmington University and enjoys it to the fullest. He has had the opportunity to do some teaching this year and really enjoys getting into the classroom setting from time to time. Tina ended her private music teaching this fall and will be watching Jackson on a part-time basis. Besides her volunteer activities, she continues to take online college courses. She can see the “light at the end of the tunnel” towards her goal of receiving her degree from Wilmington University.

We are very thankful for our health, and especially that Jim continues to maintain even with some continued decrease in his kidney function over this year. We continue to meet with the specialist every 2-3 months to stay on top of any changes leading towards an eventual kidney transplant. In regards to the transplant, many of you have said to let you know when the time comes to be tested. If you are still interested in seeing if you could be a possible live donor, please let us know and we will provide you with contact information. We thank you and appreciate your ongoing prayers, encouragement and support.

We once again organized a team for the Annual Delaware Kidney Walk. As you know, Tina has been working with the National Kidney Foundation seeking to start a local chapter for the past several years. This year WILMINGTON UNIVERSITY/TEAM WILSON was the top fundraising team for its division. Overall, the walk raised more than $80,000 to date and we thank everyone who was a part of WILMINTON UNIVERSITY/TEAM WILSON!

We had the opportunity to work with Matt, who directed The Intermediate-I session (10-11 year olds) at Camp Manatawny this past July. This year all 5 of us were able to serve as staff members during Intermediate I. It is always a memorable week of service.

This year was also a year of milestones. We both turned “50” this year and also celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary! Our children planned a wonderful surprise party in honor of these milestones. They rented a wonderful place with catered food and entertainment and invited several family members and lifelong friends. It was a great surprise and a wonderful time of celebration. We were overwhelmed and very touched. We are so thankful for our children and so proud of all of them. Thank you again, Matt, Megan and Lindsay!!

As you can see our year has been a year of very memorable times. May your holiday season be filled with time spent making memories with family and friends. May you see all the daily gifts that God so graciously provides. May you be content and at peace with your choices in your life.

We would Love to hear from you all! Merry Christmas, Jim & Tina

Extraordinary Moments

2010-11-17T22:06:00.003-05:00

My status on facebook today is that I'm thankful for being able to see the extraordinary blessings in my ordinary days!! That's what motivated me to start this blog! I know that lately, I have not been motivated to update as frequently as I had in the past. My life has changed over the last 6 weeks, but in a way that has changed me forever!! God has blessed us beyond anything that we deserve, but I pray that I continue to see His blessings and thank Him for all that He has provided in our lives.

Today, I was invited to do some errands and a little shopping with Megan and Jackson. We also made a trip to visit Santa. It was a 1st and I was thrilled be apart of the "encounter". I can't describe what this child has done to our lives. We think and act differently....like that's a change LOL!! I've changed....for the better, and I hope and pray I continue to evolve into the Mimi that God intense for me to become.

The change....awww yes, in this time of life, change is a word the conjures up hormonal issues, more than what I'm describing right now. The change has been when we don't see Jackson for several days, our (Jim's and mine) hearts ache. I battled a cold last week and didn't see him for several days. Yesterday, I had him in my arms and just took him and smelled him!!! My heart melted and my eyes filled with tears. That's my extraordinary moment time in an ordinary day. I'm so thankful for this change!!! Below is a picture of his visit to Santa. It's a bit early, but Jackson's parents are wise and decided that now is a good time before too many crowds are at the Mall. Jackson is 5 1/2 weeks old and we can not imagine our lives without him in it.

May you find many extraordinary moments in your ordinary days and realize that they are personal blessings from God. This moments remind me that God is always there for me, during the good, the bad, and the expected and unexpected times.

~ “Give Thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever.” Ps. 106:1

Ordinary Days....no more

2010-11-02T14:43:00.007-04:00

Ordinary days don't exist in our household anymore. All the days are extraordinary!!! Jackson has allowed us to see the beauty of every single day and the ordinary is no longer "just a day" but another adventure of learning, loving, serving as well as a day of being grateful for the day.

While raising our children, I had moments of these times being extraordinary, but being a grandparent has opened up this part of my mind to seeing every moment as a time to teach, mentor, learn, grow, and be so grateful. The good, the not-so-good, the surprised and the expected. Below are a few pictures of some of those days of nothing-too-special, but believe me, they're totally special!!!

I hoped when I started this blog and entitled it, "Living R Lives Together", that I would be able to express gratitude through non-eventful happenings in my life and the lives of my family. I am thankful for the insight that this blog has given me. Most of my posts are boring and self-indulgent, but I also realize that others can see that non-eventful daily events become special days with my blogging because of my attitude and outlook being centered on a higher source for direction. I'm grateful for my faith and my relationship with Christ!

~Tina

Daddy and Jackson say "Hi"

Jackson and Mommy having some love-time!

Kisses from Mimi

Grumps and Jackson having a one-on-one conversation

Ecc. 9:10a "whatever your hands find to do, do it with all your might..."

Playtime

10.10.10-the day that changed everything

2010-10-23T22:20:00.003-04:00

It's been a little over a month since I last wrote anything on my blog!! Life has definitely changed since my last post. Jim and I are grandparents!! We were expecting our little grandson the end of this month, but he decided that earlier was a better option.

Jackson Lindsay Rice was born on Sunday October 10, 2010 at 7:12 p.m. weighing 6lbs 12 oz and 21" long. He is perfect, beautiful, healthy, and as I say often exceptional!! Jim and I couldn't be happier. God has blessed us beyond measure. Mimi, as I will be called and Grumps, as Jim will be called have enjoyed getting to know Jackson over these past two weeks. Uncle Matthew, has enjoyed becoming an uncle and has also have some great bonding times with Jackson. Mommy and Daddy are doing well.

I had the privilege to be a co-coach with Lindsay for the delivery and words to express what occurred I still can't describe. It is an event that I will never forget and when I recall Jackson's birth I still tear up like it just happened a few hours ago!! Our lives were changed on 10.10.10 and we never want it to be the same again. From the moment he was born we lost our hearts to this little one.

We know what an awesome responsibility we have as Jackson's grandparents to teach him, along with his parents, how precious He is and how God specifically made Him and loves Him. My everyday tasks now revolve around the fact that Jackson is here!!! As a grandparent and mother, life becomes more prioritize with the best of things in a day.

We are thankful for this little piece of heaven that our daughter and son-in-love are parenting. Their son, Jackson, has been a true gift to them. They are great parents and work together to do what is best for Jackson and their new family. It give us great proud and emotion to see them care and nuture Jackson. This blessing is again something so undeserving, but something that we are cherishing. My heart is full of great joy!

Enjoy a few pictures of our precious miracle. God has blessed our family these last fews weeks in a way that has changed our lives forever!!!

Making a plug

2010-09-08T21:52:00.003-04:00

My sweet friend, Dana Ellis introduced me to this website this evening and I was touched by the quality and the dedication that the artisans have for their crafts. Check out the site and see if you agree. There is no obligation to do anything, but just check it out when you have the time. Happy window shopping, or maybe early holiday shopping!

~Tina

http://www.novica.com/

Eventful time of Change

2010-09-07T15:51:00.000-04:00

School is back in session and not just for those under the age of 25! I'm into my next 7week online course and so far things are progressing just fine! I plan to "press on to the goal" with each course completion. School isn't just for the young anymore!!!

School opening is not the only change at this time for us. Besides the trees beginning to have a hint of color and the lower bouts of humidity in the year, the change in the calendar brings anticipation of the birth of our 1st grandchild-a boy-expected the end of October!! We anticipate with great joy of this event in our lives!! Thank you for the ongoing prayers for our daughter and son-in-love during this time. We also are looking forward to the 3rd Annual Kidney Walk that will be held on Sunday October 17, 2010! Our team , WILMINGTON UNIVERSITY/TEAM WILSON is doing very well in raising not only monetary donations, but awareness for Kidney Disease. Thank you for all the support throughout the years and the ongoing prayers for this cause. If you are able we would LOVE for you to be a part of our team and walk with us!!

Though schedules are full with activities, may you take this time of change to possibly "change" and take time to see the blessings that God so richly gives us all every day. We are all blessed with so many little moments that enrich our lives.

~Tina
"Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies. " -Mother Teresa

Reflections of Nature by Nina

2010-09-06T15:36:00.000-04:00

"A sister is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit, a golden thread to the meaning of life."

First of all I want to say how proud I am of my sister-Nina Lenker! She has a talent and she is now sharing her talent with others and starting her own business in the process. I realized what a great talent she had when we attended her oldesst son's wedding and she designed every arrangement that was seen from the church to the reception to what the wedding party carried and wore. It was gorgeous! We, our daughter and I, were so impressed that we asked her if she would be willing to do the flower arrangements for the church building for Megan's, our daughter wedding. She accepted the offer and we were totally satisfied and appreciative of her unique touch for each client that she serves. That was almost two years ago.

Today I am sharing this information with my blog-reader friends so you can see what great work she is doing. Her store is small at this point, but she just opened up for business June of 2010! She is working on building up her clients and she is doing several weddings, special occasion events as well as selling items in her store.

At this time she doesn't have a website, so I thought I could share her designs through my blog. Please feel free to share with your friends. I will add the contact information below the website.

Enjoy these creations and if you would like to consult with her about an upcoming event or just making an ordinary day a little special. She would love to create a one-of-kind item for you!

Thanks for taking the time to view the site.

~Tina

Reflections of Nature by Nina
(featuring silk floral arrangments, all occasion balloons, home decor items, cemetary memorial arrangemetns and much, much more)

121 N. 11th Street
Trevorton, PA 17881
570-452-2515
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=20788&id=100000542341254&l=8bf840a78f

Betwixt and Between

2010-08-18T23:33:00.003-04:00

Today was an unusual day for me! I had time to do a few things that I usually don't get to during a normal day. As many of you know, I have completely another 7wk online class (actually this is week 7 and I'm a bit "ahead of the game), so I've started my reading week a few days early.

It has been a rainy cooler day and after some ironing and a few errands, I had the rest of the day to do whatever. I jumped at the opportunity. I thought I would read for "enjoyment", but I kept losing my train of thought, so I kept thinking, why not start some scrapbooking. I have not done much of it since our daughter and son-in-law got married and that's been almost 2 years now. I've been doing more quilting projects, etc. I have "collected" plenty of scrapbook accessories these past 2 years, but today I got some of the items out and started scrapbooking. It is a craft that when you start, you lose all track of time. I opted to begin once I knew what my plans and preparation for our dinner was in order.
I finished this evening feeling a great sense of fulfillment and pleasure. The memories of the times that the pictures I was scrapbooking gave me is one of the best reasons for anyone to learn or begin scrapbooking. This form of art/craft, allows an individual to recall very special times in their history. For me, it reminds me of how blessed my life is, even when some of the pictures are of losses, or disappointments, though most are memories of wonderful, special activities. It really puts my priorities in proper order when I am reviewing pictures and scrapbooking the memories.

The reason to blog tonight...I'm really not sure, but it could be that I enjoyed the evening so much, without deadlines, time crunches that fill so many of all our days. I honestly do try to keep my schedule in balance and this allows for less stress which can always give me trouble when I'm on "over-load", but I think doing a bit of scrapbooking was very therapeutic. I guess the reason for the blogging tonight is to say, get out those old pictures, if they're on the computer, print them out and start looking through them and remembering where you were, who you were with and what was the occasion. You mind will recall, will relax, will be stimulated.

I will begin my reading for my upcoming classes and studies in the morning, but I will also be setting time for recalling good/special, or even those not-so-good times through scrapbooking on a more regular basis...it won't be another 2 years until I scrapbook again.

Thank you Lord for the rainy day because, like a snow day, it slowed me down and put things back in line. I've "put time in" for my sanity stitching as I call my quilting and cross-stitch projects, but I also plan for time for picture enjoyment through scrapbooking.

Have a great rest of the week! See what you can do to make time for being creative. It truly is a refreshing aspect, or if you are more creative throughout your day, try something more logical and I'm sure that you will be refreshed.

This balance of time management is definitely not easy, but dismissing the feeling of guilt from your vocabulary, allows the doors of fitting in things you enjoy to do into your daily routine more personally acceptable.

My quiet time has been "in place" for a long time and I'm thankful that it is "just what I do", but I'm now trying to fit in times of hobbies more regularly. I like the results!!

Being betwixt and between is a good thing sometimes!! ~Tina

A Time for Everything

"There is a time for everything,
a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain,
a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace."

Ecc 3:1-8

There is a Season

He's a person!!!

2010-08-14T15:00:00.008-04:00

Way back in April, I shared with you the special news that we were going to be 1st time grandparents. We also shared a 1st picture of our expected grandchild. This past week, I have the privilege to be at the 29th (or to be exact 28 week 6 day) ultrasound of our Grandson!!

God's handiwork is so prevalent in his creation. Again, I am reminded of Psalms 139:13-16: "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be."

I witnessed first hand the work of His glory this past week when I again, was blown away by the details and the perfection and the growing process of such a miracle. I saw his perfectly designed skeleton, and his perfectly portioned body and organs. He is also forming "his own characteristics", which is again such a remarkable sight to witness! Our 1st grandchild-our grandson is being "knitted together in our daughter's womb"!! At this particular visit he weighed 2lbs 15oz! I am treasuring all these things and ponder them in my heart continually! I will tell you all that I mentioned to our soon-to-be born grandson...the next time I see your precious face, I will be holding you and kissing you!! It has been a blessing beyond words to be a part of this miracle of life. Jim and I eagerly await the arrival of this perfect boy the end of October. Our daughter and son-in-law are doing well and the pregnancy is going like "textbook", or "boring" as our daughter's one doctor stated. "BORING IS VERY GOOD"! She has appointments now every 2wks rather than monthly. Their due date is still 10.29.10 The icing on the cake this week was that Uncle Matt finally got to feel him kick; that too was a priceless moment.

Here are the pictures: (The first one is his profile, the 2nd is a better look at his precious face and his fingers, and the 3rd picture is him playing "peek-a-boo" with his little arm and wrist/fingers over his face). They are worth more than any words I can keep babbling!!!

Praying for you and yours and I know that you are praying for me and mine!

~Tina

A picture is worth more than a thousand words!

2010-07-28T21:58:00.000-04:00

Here is a video of our week at Camp Manatawny Intermediate I! It was another great week, even with the HOT temps and the HUMIDITY. The campers did very well and the Staff was great and so dedicated to the campers.
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=740832712#!/video/video.php?v=519995169953&ref=mf

This is a wonderful ministry and my family is very proud to be a small part of the work through our volunteering with Intermediate I.

~Tina

It will soon be here!

2010-07-15T12:31:00.000-04:00

Dear Friends and Family,

Thank you to all who have already taken the time to support the upcoming walk on October 17th at the Riverfront through you donations. We have only approximately 94 days until the walk and we are asking for your support through pledges as well as participation in the walk.

There is a" no set" amount fee that you need to make to contribute and all of you contributions are tax deducted. Your donation to Wilmington University/Team Wilson is so appreciated!

As you know this is a cause that is very close to our family. Jim has been placed on the transplant list this past February for his kidney failure. We also have several close friends that are fighting this disease in our area as well. Any donation that you can make will allow us to get closer to our personal goal for the upcoming walk. The proceeds will benefit those that are fighting this disease in our area.

If you are able to attend the walk, we would LOVE to have your support that day, but we also appreciate your support through your thoughts and prayers. We ask that you share the news about the walk and bring a friend on the 17th or make a donation together!

Your support is appreciated,

JOIN : WILMINGTON UNIVERSITY/TEAM WILSON
for the Wilmington Kidney Walk @ http://www.kidney.org/

Yo-Ho Time is near!!

2010-07-14T14:53:00.000-04:00

The post below is from the Intermediate I blog which I will update throughout next week with our ongoing activities. Keep this ministry in your prayers as we serve the 10 and 11 year olds that will be attending Camp Manatawny!

Thanks Director Matt for you introduction to our upcoming week!!

~Tina

2010 Intermediate One Week at Camp Manatawny

Veggies Tales' "Pirates Who Don't Do Anything" are coming to Camp Manatawny!

Beginning Saturday July 17 through Saturday July 24, the camp will transform into a pirate theme for a the Intermediate Camp week. The theme for the week is "Calling All Heroes"!

We are going to learn how, with Christ, we too can be heroes for Him! Along with our dynamic Bible class program, we will be having many different types of games, activities, and lots of fun!

Keep checking out the blog throughout the week. We are going to try to keep the blog updated.

Please keep all of us who are at camp this week in your prayers. May God be glorified and lives be changed through our Christ-like service to each other throughout the week. It will be exciting. Ahoy!!!

If you could like to register or get more information about this week and others at Camp Manatawny please go to www.manatawny.org. More information and stories to come...

Reflections

2010-07-05T21:29:00.000-04:00

June 30, 2010 I turned "50"!! Yes, I'm a half-century old, yes, I'm considered an antique...yes, I'm like a fine wine: better with age!! Did turning 50 bother me...not in the least!! I feel blessed to reach this milestone. I'm in good health (except for the extra pounds that I seem to like too much to get rid of ), and I'm so blessed.

My reflections on turning 50 were much different than what I expected them to be. I woke up on the 30th and I was looking forward to all the activities that were planned for this special birthday. While I was enjoying my breakfast and quiet time on our deck overlooking the wooded area in our backyard I had a thought.

The thought was one of disappoint. I truly felt that I've not been living up to my potential as a Christian witness to others! My heart immediately reflected on Jesus and his life while on earth. He lived 33 years as a Christian example. What an impact He made on so many lives in such a short amount of time. He was only in the "professional business" for 3 years of His life. His ministry was not only those 3 years, but his entire life. He had a plan from the beginning, just like I have a plan from my beginning. God knew me before I was born, He had plans for me to choose and to use for Him. (Psalms 139:13-15).

I rededicated myself on that morning, June 30th, to make a stronger effort to share "my story" of how He blesses my life, not just in those special moments, but in those daily "ah-ha" moments, those common moments that most see has just happenings, but that we as Christians need to see has God's little daily blessings. I pray to have a greater impact for Him in my new season of life! May the Holy Spirit prick my heart to be a better witness for His purpose for my life! I'm so thankful for His Grace and Unconditional Love!

~Tina

"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." Romans 15:13

Summertime

2010-06-17T22:21:00.000-04:00

Some pictures of flowers in our yard! I just love this time of the year!

"A something in a summer's Day"

As slow her flambeaux burn away
Which solemnizes me.
A something in a summer's noon --
A depth -- an Azure -- a perfume --
Transcending ecstasy.
And still within a summer's night
A something so transporting bright
I clap my hands to see --
Then veil my too inspecting face
Lets such a subtle -- shimmering grace
Flutter too far for me --
The wizard fingers never rest --
The purple brook within the breast
Still chafes it narrow bed --
Still rears the East her amber Flag --
Guides still the sun along the Crag
His Caravan of Red --
So looking on -- the night -- the morn
Conclude the wonder gay --
And I meet, coming thro' the dews
Another summer's Day!"
- Emily Dickinson, A Something in a Summer's Day

Today we were changed!

2010-06-02T19:12:00.000-04:00

"For you created my inmost being;

you knit me together in my mother's womb.

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;

your works are wonderful,

I know that full well.

My frame was not hidden from you

when I was made in the secret place.

When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,..."~Psalm 139:13-15

Today we had the privilege to attend an ultrasound with our daughter and son-in-law! What a life changing experience! Besides the tears that filled my eyes and at times, rolled down my cheeks, throughout the whole experience (we call those tears Happy Tears in our home),we were able to see God's handiwork in motion!

Never before have I experienced anything like this! We saw a little hands and even got a wave! We saw not only the bones of the arms, legs, thigh, back, brain, neck, shoulder, feet, hands, but at some areas how they were joined together. We witness the flowing of the blood through the little body and the heart pumping strong with a regular steady beat, as well as the flow of blood through the organs, including two healthy kidneys! We witness turning and rolling, and then we saw the spine, ears, eyes, and even nostril wholes! We saw measurements being taken and all measures are in normal, or as they said "boring" aka-no problems levels! We also were confidently told that we our first grandchild will be a BOY without any doubts :-D

We were witness to God's miracle of life today! Our miracle of life through our daughter and our son-in-law's love and their commitment to God and each other. All of this detail and our grandson is only 10oz in weight! 10oz...that is the closest miracle that I will ever witness. Thank you Lord for this experience!!

We look forward to seeing our grandson, grow and grow over the next several months with anticipation of holding him in late October! We have already fallen deeply in love with this little precious one and my heart is almost bursting already with love for him.

One of God's greatest gift on earth is the witnessing of seeing a child mature and grow and bond with his mother and father even before he is born! I am so thankful for this opportunity today to witness and being introduced to our 1st grandson!

The scripture above came to my mind as I was in the parking lot getting ready to leave the appointment today! Happy Tears have been flowing alot for me today. I'm so humbled, so eager, so ready for this next stage in our lives.This has been one of the best "livingrlives" day-to-day event yet! Thank you Lord for your blessings of daily happenings and life changing moments.

~Tina (aka Mimi) a very blessed woman

Father's Day gifts

2010-06-02T11:55:00.006-04:00

"Fatherhood is pretending the present you love most is soap-on-a-rope."~Bill Cosby

I was suppose to give suggestions about different gifts for Father's Day on the Mom-tage site that I have the privilege to be a member. I'm not sure these are very original, but they sure made great memories for us when we were raising our children. I thought I'd share them with my blog friends and feel free to share some of your children's (any age) creative gifts for Father's Day! Here are my suggestions and thoughts:

Over the years, there was the famous "soap on a rope"! Then the creative sides "kicked in" and there were homemade frames with a picture of each of the children, as well as cross-stitch bookmarks (I LOVE DAD), or even "homemade coupons" such as "I will take out the trash without being asked!", or I'll make my bed and place my laundry in the basket rather than beside the basket." You get the idea!

When we had our children, we decided to make a "date time" with each of the children on a one-to-one time together, this is something that we still do and have incorporated our son-in-law as well. We don't do it near as often as we all would like.

I shared that to share the next Father's day gift: Now that they are adult children, they sometimes will place a picture of what they want to do on their one-on-one time with their dad and it is now "their treat" to him! It can be something as simple as a walk in the park, or shooting basketball together or hitting a bucket of golf balls, to dinner and movie, the list is endless! Just being together and listening and sharing.

It is a tradition that will seem to carry-on in our family. We plan to continue the tradition with our grandchildren. Our 1st grandchild that is coming in October will hopefully love the time with Mimi and Grumps!

~Tina

A different kind of book club

2010-05-11T19:18:00.000-04:00

Tne Mom-tage is a blog started by two friends. I happen to know one of the "founders". This is a great idea and I'm not surprised that Dana is part of this creation! Stop by and check out the news, the new topics of discussion, as well as the "book of the month" readings!

I've never been a part of this type of group, but I'm looking forward to it and was honored to be asked to join. I have the "badge" on my blog, so you'll be reminded to check it out each time you check in on my blog. This is not just for mothers with children at home...it's about women at all stages of life, who have influenced, raised, in the process of raising and nurturing children. If nothing else the layout is excellent and the book selections are great topics.

Stop by and if you would like, say Hi to The Mom-tage group!! Feel free to say "Tina said I should check this out". Have a blessed week

http://www.themomtage.com/2010/05/exciting-news-and-giveaways-galore.html?showComment=1273619347174_AIe9_BGUNG9QgKStoLihiPRa3ovuzxks__p83hspFkrq7aLAWPnpPxQzlczdmU0c6Qa5ulZvTEbner_SXD_JKAEknBX3H4hhpXSzRK3ssRPlL5yXdpR4DfgAA2K2649ZYxPA8Zy0hKyUrnBzr40bcz85rZ7jpzp4tuH4l8yfbiMyFq_oZ57b9qcG-c6cGHx2skxwfXbdg1DBV9DPRmD-yMiiY8L00iJGVnesGbdBoE6YoR6t3hGNsrc#c1487681047111322305

Mimi means it this time

2010-05-10T22:47:00.004-04:00

I've said this before, but now is the time that I'll be finishing what I'm starting. I have finally seen that I can finish my degree. It will take me a little while because I plan to take a course every 7 weeks with only one or two courses being semester (15 wks) length! I have always wanted to finish my degree, but have used life and commitments as excuses not too for the last several years.

After our daughter graduated from college, I knew that it was "now my time". Only at that time, when I took classes, I saw them as "another stress" in my life. The classes I took went well, but my fulfillment with taking classes was one of "feeling like there was a monkey on my back". I decided at the end of a difficult course that I was not going to have that "feeling" anymore.

Or so I thought, I kept signing up for classes then cancelling, then signing up and cancelling. When I cancelled out of an elective food-type course (which anyone who knows me knows I work with food alot in my daily life), I knew that it was something deeper!!

I've now realized that I've not kept things in the proper perspective. I've used going to school as a "mountain" and it's only a "mole hill". Let me explain! Finishing my degree is something that I've always wanted to do and have regretted not doing, so when I had the opportunity to do it, I would "choke" and back out. I didn't have the confidence in myself. I doubted, I allowed my thoughts to bring doubt and uncertainty to something that was not a burden as much as it was a desire to do something for me. The mountain/mole hill comment is that I was making "going to school" too big of a deal. It was not my life...it was a very small aspect of my life!!

What a revelation!!! Though I have a great support group, until I realized that I could do this and not neglect my regular daily life events or feel like I had to do only schooling and give up several other things, again I say, what a revelation.

I am now in classes and have signed up through the end of December and plan to continue with this last year 1/2 (of classes) to receive my BS in General Studies with an emphasis in Music. It may take me longer than the year-and-a-half, but I plan to take a class a course time and see where that leads me to my finished goal.

I've found out that "thinking" has been my main downfall! Sounds odd for someone going back to finish a degree, but it is, or should I say was, VERY TRUE for me...thinking was my downfall. I always wondered (or thought) I shouldn't do this because...or what if I'm needed to do...or I might have to say no to this......, etc You see where I'm going with this!!! I have been finding more and more scriptures in the Bible lately about how we think, is how our life goes. I've seen through my personal study that God knew that some of us (like me) would have trouble with thinking and want to return to the negative thinking rather than the positive thinking. Phil. 4:8 Actually the book of Philippians is a great book about thinking and thinking the right way...centered on God and being centered there is a PEACE that covers all of life's unexpected happenings. There will be unexpected happenings, but with HIS PEACE, I'm seeing that I'm still able to live life to the fullest and that includes finishing my race....getting my degree!

I'm thankful that I have had this revelation because I truly know that deep-down I have always wanted to finish my degree. Back in 1980 when I received my AA from Northeastern Christian Jr. College, I planned to "one day" receive my finished degree. I've been blessed to teach privately and that is something that I am very thankful for, but I also am thankful for this opportunity and know that I can do this because HE continues to help me "think correctly". GISG!!

I am thankful to those that I have been able to talk to about my lack of peace and self thinking. I am also thankful for the unconditional love of my husband and his ongoing support! I am especially grateful for my family and the support and love that they continue to give with all the "ups and downs" of my classes over the years! I'm also so grateful for my "inner circle" of friends that have been there and continue to be there and are even more supportive now that I'm my confident in my desire! Girls you Rock!!!

I'm now looking forward to this goal, but still know that I must keep things in balance. I intend to do my best, but I'm not out to prove that I can be the best non-traditional student Wilmington University ever honored with a degree. I just want to graduate and know that I gave my best without giving my life away. Because God blesses me too much with daily blessings for me to sacrifice my established life. Taking classes is icing on my cake, or the cherry on top of a sundae. It is just a completion of an already very, very blessed life!

Our Baby Girl Is Having A Baby

2010-04-28T23:04:00.003-04:00

Because of Two People Who Fell In Love (almost 30 years ago this year)...

They had a daughter 10.18.85. She was the added "sugar" to our "spice"-she had a big-brother 1.13.82!

...once again...two people fell in love ( Nov 8, 2008)

...and the circle of life continues....Because two people fell in love!! Our daughter and son-in-love our having our first grandchild. Due date is 10.29.10!!

Our hearts are filled with an abundance of joy and love that is unexplainable. We are touched, humbled and excited about this new stage of our lives!!! We know what a blessing we are getting to experience and we are thankful to God for this opportunity.

We look forward to being grandparents--Mimi and Grumps to be exact (frankly...this precious child can call us whatever!.!

Uncle Matt (the spice--see above) is over-the-moon excited too!!

Hearing that we were going to be grandparents reminded me of one of my favorite scriptures, "Mary ponder these things in her heart." I am pondering and remembering, and the more I ponder, the more thankful I am to have a Father that gives us so much: meeting a perfect person that becomes the most important person in my life and through that love we are blessed with a wonderful strong marriage, with a son, then a daughter, then a son-in-love, followed by a grandchild....the seasons of life continue to get more special as they go along. Each season has been lined in Gold and this stage of season is no different.

OUR BABY IS HAVING A BABY!!!!

Happy Mother's Day

2010-04-26T20:24:00.003-04:00

Happy Mother's Day! This story from Erma Bombeck is "an oldie, but a goodie". How blessed we are to be mothers!!! Never doubt that your work as a mother is not the most important career you will ever undertake. God blesses woman in the position of Motherhood!!
~Tina

When God Created Mothers"

When the Good Lord was creating mothers, He was into His sixth day of "overtime" when the angel appeared and said. "You're doing a lot of fiddling around on this one."

And God said, "Have you read the specs on this order?" She has to be completely washable, but not plastic. Have 180 moveable parts...all replaceable. Run on black coffee and leftovers. Have a lap that disappears when she stands up. A kiss that can cure anything from a broken leg to a disappointed love affair. And six pairs of hands."

The angel shook her head slowly and said. "Six pairs of hands.... no way."

It's not the hands that are causing me problems," God remarked, "it's the three pairs of eyes that mothers have to have."

That's on the standard model?" asked the angel. God nodded.

One pair that sees through closed doors when she asks, 'What are you kids doing in there?' when she already knows. Another here in the back of her head that sees what she shouldn't but what she has to know, and of course the ones here in front that can look at a child when he goofs up and say. 'I understand and I love you' without so much as uttering a word."

God," said the angel touching his sleeve gently, "Get some rest tomorrow...."

I can't," said God, "I'm so close to creating something so close to myself. Already I have one who heals herself when she is sick...can feed a family of six on one pound of hamburger...and can get a nine year old to stand under a shower."

The angel circled the model of a mother very slowly. "It's too soft," she sighed.

But tough!" said God excitedly. "You can imagine what this mother can do or endure."

Can it think?"

Not only can it think, but it can reason and compromise," said the Creator.

Finally, the angel bent over and ran her finger across the cheek.

There's a leak," she pronounced. "I told You that You were trying to put too much into this model."

It's not a leak," said the Lord, "It's a tear."

What's it for?"

It's for joy, sadness, disappointment, pain, loneliness, and pride."

You are a genius, " said the angel.

Somberly, God said, "I didn't put it there."

— Erma Bombeck

We found out a little while ago that we are going to be grandparents this coming October! Our daughter and son-in-love are expecting their first child and our first grandchild!! We are in awe and totally excited about becoming Mimi and Grumps (grandparents). We have the blessing of having all of our children within a 30 minute radius. I'm sure I will be posting more on the joys of grandparenting and tons of pictures as time goes on. Happy Mother's Day and God Bless!!

Information on being a possible living kidney donor

2010-03-16T17:25:00.000-04:00

March 16, 2010

Dear Friends and Family,

Jim was officially placed on the transplant list as of 2/12/10. We met with the transplant team this afternoon.

As for testing to be a match! Many of you have said to let you know when the time comes to be tested. If you are still interested in seeing if you could be a possible live donor, here is what you need to do:

*CALL EMILY PRUITT, RN, MSN

Kidney Transplant Program

302.623.3866

Christiana Care Kidney Transplant Program

Medical Arts Pavilion II, Ste 2224

4735 Ogletown-Stanton Road

Newark, DE 19713

302.623.3864 (fax)

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*When you call mention that you are interested in the process for a live donor match for Jim (James) Wilson date of birth 3.17.60.

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Gotcha!

2010-03-16T10:51:00.003-04:00

Gotcha!!! That's definitely one word to use for what happened on Saturday night, March 13, 2010! The "plan" was that some close friends were picking us up for a night of jazz music and dinner. All things were going according to "plan", or so was we thought. We pulled up to a lovely establishment called the Farmhouse . We enter in and BAM!!! We are greeted with "surprise" and "congratulations"!! Overwhelmed, shocked, heart-touched, humbled, loved, happy; these are just some words to describe what was going through our minds. Are children planned a huge surprise party to celebrate milestones for us. We are both turning 50 this year and we will also be celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary.

The total surprise and shock, besides being clueless...is that Jim's birthday is soon, March 17th (actually I was in the process of planning a surprise party for Jim and all the time our daughter was sending out emails to say "reply to the party that we're doing", only let mom know that you plan to attend the other party, but the party on the 13th is the "real thing"), but my birthday is not until June 30th and our wedding anniversary is June 7th.

What a great event!! We saw friends that we have been close to for over 30 years. We had opportunity to talk with some family members from out-of-state, who weren't able to attend because of weather issues, but we truly felt their presence.

Jim and I could hardly speak when we first saw all the work that our children did for us. What a special way to honor us.There was a slide show of our "life" together to this date and music of the 60's and 70's playing in the background!

To start off the evening, we had "our first dance" together to "Our song" You decorated my life-Kenny Rogers. There was great food and wonderful memories and "catching up" shared. Barbara Bush states a definitely of a family that I love: "To us, family means putting your arms around each other and being there." ~Barbara Bush Everyone that was there that evening was "our family". They have "been there" for us as we have "been there" for them. Hugs were evident and love and laughter was everywhere.

The above description does not do justice to the impact and the experience that we had to be honored by our children and celebrated by some close friends! All this: because two people fell in love! In June of 1980 two very young people committed their lives to have and to hold, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part! We started a family in 1982, with the birth of our son-Matthew, and added to our family in 1985, with the birth of our daughter, Megan. We grew together as a family, individuals, and as a couple. Our lives continued to intertwine with people who not only became friends, but became part of our family. In 2008 we added another member to our family, Lindsay-our son-in-love. Our lives are full of joys and some sorrows and much prayer as well as a ton of laughter! We are so blessed. The love of these "two young people" is guided by God who is the center of their union! Our credit for such great kids must go to God as well as those people that God put in our lives to help in raising them. We have thanked God every day for the blessing of our children.

Oh What a Night is was!! We feel that the words "thank you" aren't enough to express our gratitude, but as dear friend stated, "thank you is enough between close friends". So THANK YOU Matt, Megan, and Lindsay, our love for you is unconditional and increases with every passing day! THANK YOU FRIENDS for a night that we will never forget! The milestones of 2010 will be remembered along with other important dates in our life together.

Living R Lives together: March 13th was an example of those daily blessings. The lives that we touched and touched ours over the span of 30+ years, how joyful, how pleasant, how grateful, and how blessed. Another favorite is a passage in Colossians, when Paul states, "Love is what binds us together..." Col 3:14. The bond of Christ was evident in the room that night. It was because of Him, that we celebrated.

The blessings of being refined

2010-02-18T18:47:00.000-05:00

Read the words to the song below and absorb them. Today has been a day of more reality then fantasy for me and my family. It has been a good day, even though there has been more reality. I was touched today when hearing this song and shared it with my friends on facebook, but also thought I would share it on my blog. We become diamonds through the "roughing" process. May you be blessed through the words and the music. -Tina

There burns a fire with sacred heat

White hot with holy flame

And all who dare pass through its blaze

Will not emerge the same

Some as bronze, and some as silver

Some as gold, then with great skill

All are hammered by their sufferings

On the anvil of His will

Chorus:

The Refiner's fire

Has now become my souls desire

Purged and cleansed and purified

That the Lord be glorified

He is consuming my soul

Refining me, making me whole

No matter what I may lose

I choose the Refiner's fire

I'm learning now to trust His touch

To crave the fire's embrace

For though my past with sin was etched

His mercies did erase

Each time His purging cleanses deeper

I'm not sure that I'll survive

Yet the strength in growing weaker

Keeps my hungry soul alive

Chorus

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=idA6fCAHVzs

James 1: 2-5 "Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him."

It's finished

2010-02-16T10:05:00.003-05:00

Above is a picture of my first super-large quilting project. I think it turned out nicely. The idea was created about 2 1/2 years ago, when I took my first 12-hour (3 sessions) how to make a quilt class. I was hooked!! Since I "graduated" from the course, I have made several baby quilts, hanging quilts, placemats, lapquilts, but I never thought I would attempt a project like the one above the week after I finished the course. I started cutting and making the pillows with a dear friend, thanks Debbi. The finished products of the pillows as good and I thought, "if I can do pillows with different designs, I can easily do a quilt with the same pattern for our bed." That was the beginning of my journey! After measuring and cutting and places the squares together and sewing and doing the process all over again, I was able to create the top of the quilt. I was going to start the hand-quilting process and my husband surprised me with a wonderful quilting stand that will hold all sizes of projects; from baby size quilt to king-size quilt. The quilt above is a king-size quilt. It WAS a huge undertaking. I thought I could get this done in "no time". I forgot about how "life" would enter in to my quilting world. My goal was to work on the quilt about 1-2 hours a day. That happened for only a short time. Last night I placed the last stitch in the binding of the quilt. It is now "on display" on our bed bringing all the colors and decor together. It was well worth the wait and the time and effort.

Through the hand quilting of the binding, I began to see how this quilt has been an example of my life. I have many great opportuntities, though I am not always able to concentrate on one aspect of those opportuntities, if I continue to do my best, and give it my best when I'm able to, the end result will be a sense of accomplishment as well as a satisfaction of completion. I have struggled with dong the right thing most of my life. Trying to find out what the definition of the right thing is for myself and those involved in my life as well as how my choices will allow others to see that Christ is the center of my life. The quilting project showed me that the choice is always there, I just need to keep the focus and with patience, effort, and yes some sacrifice all the great opportunitites that I want to do and choose to do can be achieved, and with in turn I will see that the choices I made were the right choices for me.

"...you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God." Col 1:10

Philippians 1:6...being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.

Have a great week!

Long time no hear?

2010-02-11T10:36:00.000-05:00

It's been a little while since I last posted. My daily activities have been somewhat modified due to getting over this on-going sickness. As of today, I'm much improved, thanks to the prayers, and the wisdom of my doctor prescribing the right medication. I'm feeling almost back to myself.

I've also had unexpected happenings....you will see below what we've been doing, most of the eastern coast has been doing the same thing. My wonderful husband has been doing the work, I've been taking care of having him here 24/7 for several days in a row now. The beauty of this time of year is Spectacular....but I'm soooo ready for Spring and all that it offers. I received this scripture from a friend and thought it was so appropriate to share.

"Come now, let us reason together," says the LORD. "Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow… (Isaiah 1:18)

Though Winter is not my favorite season, I love all the seasons and what they bring. I found this scripture to be a cleansing, much like the snow that we all are experiencing here on the Eastcoast. The new fallen snow is so pure, clean, untouch, and bright! When Jesus touches us through our true confession of our sin; we become so pure, clean, bright, and guilt-free. Though I'm not a snow-lover, I love the reminder that a snow like this gives me. The reminder that my life is one of grace and totally forgiveness through Jesus. Thank you Jesus for your mercy, and making me whiter than snow.

This last picture is 2.10.10 mid-afternoon. We had been without electric power since 10:00 a.m. and I decided to "make" a late lunch early dinner (thinking we would be trying to find something to eat in the dark). We ended up having beef stew with cornbread and while the grill was on I heated a large pot of water for hot drinks. Our dinner was very good! The water was a bonus to rinse the dishes and allow for hot water for us through the evening hours. We made a good decision...our electric did not come back on until 11:00 p.m. Though it was 13-hours of no heat, or electric, we know how blessed we were to have propane for heat, blankets, layers of clothing. Many others have far less without the cause of a power outage.

He is there!

2010-01-28T19:39:00.000-05:00

I am posted something today that touched my heart and I know it will touch yours. Thanks Patti for allowing me to share this on my blog. It really follows with what I wrote earlier this week. I wasn't expecting to post anything else this week, but sometimes God has other plans. We all have struggles, trials, as well as joys. God provides the assistance for the experience. He will always be there! When we don't know the reasons for our situation...He Knows!! GISG

~Tina

GOD SAID...

• If you never felt pain, then how would you know I am the Healer?

• If you never went through difficulties, how would you know that I am the Deliverer?

• If you never had a trial, how could you call yourself an overcomer?

• If you never felt sadness, how would you know that I am the Comforter?

• If you never made a mistake, how would you know that I am the Forgiver?

• If you knew all, how would you know that I will answer your questions?

• If you were never in trouble, how would you know that I would come to your rescue?

• If you were never broken, then how would you know that I can make you whole?

• If you never had a problem, how would you know that I could solve them?

• If you never had suffering, how would you know what Jesus went through?

• If you never went through fire, how would you become pure?

• If I gave you all things, how would you appreciate them?

• If I never corrected you, how would you know that I love you?

• If you had all power, how would you learn to depend on Me?

• If your life were perfect, why would you need Me??

-Author Unknown

Boy Oh Boy, Are We Blessed….So Remember to be Thankful!

2010-01-27T13:18:00.004-05:00

Thankful in all things?!?!?

I’ve been struggling with some respiratory and sinus issues since mid-November. Am I ready for this “thorn” to be gone, most definitely. Do I see blessings in this time? I definitely didn’t, but as time continues to go, I see how my thinking is changing when dealing with a more chronic issue. I should know how to deal with chronic issues…I’ve been dealing with fibromyalgia for over 10 years now, but this…why this. It’s all in my head, right!!!!

“Always giving thanks to God the father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ” What encouraging words Paul said to his audience in Ephesus and he continues to say to us in the scriptures Ephesians 5:20.

Notice in the above statement. He said to be “thankful” for EVERYTHING!!!! That’s very easy to say, but can we or do we put this in practice? Several years ago I had the privilege to create and teach a study on the book of Titus. At that time I spent ample time on Chapter 2:3-5. One of the things that we found is that we must accept God’s high calling for all the characteristics that are listed in Titus and within the text of those characteristics we are to be self-controlled/disciplined, and ready to serve, from the heart, whenever the opportunity arises. As older women (and we are all older than someone) we must set our minds on good things and seeing events, whether a terribly difficult situation or just an unexpected happening. We then have the opportunity to exercise our given calling with the choices we make to deal with the event. All this to say…giving thanks in everything!!! What a task before all of us, but yet again another high calling for us as Christians.

How do I do it you may be thinking, (I know I've thought that) when I’ve suffered such loss throughout so many situations? I truly believe when we encounter unexpected severe losses, we may never receive the answer while we are here on earth, but we, in time, see the hope (Hold On Past Earth) in receiving the answer when we see Jesus face to face in heaven!!

SO, the question again, how do I handle it while I’m here on earth!!!

Jesus gave us an example to follow, for He gave thanks in the blackest of circumstances: He gave thanks for the bread and wine that He served His disciples at their last meal before His death. “While they were eating, Jesus took bread, GAVE THANKS and broke it…saying, “Take & eat; this is my body.’Then he took the cup, GAVE THANKS and offered it to them…” How could Jesus THANK God for His own broken body and spilled blood? The only possible way: by looking at suffering and death with eyes (self-controll/displine) that saw the “Big Picture”, the eternal perscpective.

Isn’t it the same for you and me? The only way we can always be thankful is to look at the difficult circumstances from God’s perspective and the examples that He provided for us in His Word. Easy to say, but as I mentioned above, we must rely on the hope of the answer and live according to that promise. This is how Paul can say to us today…”giving thanks to everything….in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ”. By giving thanks through Christ, he is our mediator and buffer of the times when we don’t know why and though we’re distraught, we must and can realize that He is working out the situation, as we continually give it to Him in prayer, to the ultimate good from the eternal perscpective.

Through the Psalms and David’s writings we learn lesons on living life. What a prayer warrior David was. He was continually thankful in all aspects of his life. The psalms of struggle and despair always lead back to thankfulness and hopefullness of the later reward of blessings. I found a comtempary praise psalm that David might have written if alive today. Again, I would love to give credit to the author, which in my findings is unknown.

Praise the Lord

Praise God in the glorious sunshine;

Praise Him in the freezing drizzle.

Praise Him as you drive to church;

Praise Him as you drive to the dentist.

Praise Him in the checkout line;

Praise Him in freeway traffic.

Praise God on the job;

Praise Him on vacation.

Praise Him on pyaday and as you make the house payment.

Praise God when you open your eyes in the morning;

Praise Him when you can’t shut them at night.

Praise Him for take-out food and elegant dinners.

Praise Him for computers and E-mail.

Praise God when you’re 13

Praise Him when you’re 93.

Praise Him in the racket of a family gathering;

Praise Him in the quietness of a lonely room.

Praise God through your music.

Praise Him with your heart and voice—

Or in silence.

Let EVERTHING that has breath praise the Lord.

Praise the Lord!

The day that lies ahead of you—or the one you just finished may be stormy and overcast. A Texas newspaper editor, William A. Ward, once said, “God gave you a gift of 86, 400 seconds today. Have you used one to say “THANK YOU”!

So though the uncomfortable situation we may be experiencing right now feels like it isn’t going way. Give Thanks! As I said earlier, I’ve been trying to find the “good” in my current health situation. Surprisingly, (if I truly believe what I’ve written above, I shouldn’t say suprisingly), I am seeing blessings in this struggle. Would I like to be “back to normal”, most definitely, but am I learning more about myself through this event, definitely, will it help me in the future, again a resounding YES. Have I prayed more specifically about this and my been reliance on His Will, YES, YES, YES!! I am thankful, YOU BET I AM!!!

~Tina

Gifts that Don't Cost A Cent

2010-01-23T15:53:00.000-05:00

In today's economic times we are all looking for ways to save, save, save! Here are some ways to give a gift without involving dollars. The rewards will be greater than when a child on Christmas morning who received "the gift", find more enjoyment with the box then the prize purchased. Practical...see what you think:

THE GIFT OF LISTENING... But you must REALLY listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.

THE GIFT OF AFFECTION...Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.

THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER...Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you."

THE GIFT OF A WRITTEN NOTE...It can be a simple "Thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet. A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.

THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT... A simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job" or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.

THE GIFT OF A FAVOR... Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.

THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE... There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.

THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION... The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it's not that hard to say, Hello or Thank You.

The GIFT of OURSELVES. Small happenings in our daily lives are priceless! May you see them and know what a "gift" they are from God.

Have a wonderful week!

~Tina

God’s Closet

2010-01-21T16:38:00.000-05:00

I've been purging some closet's the last few weeks and have several more areas to purge. As I have been working on organizing areas I had several thoughts popping in my mind. The ideas may be a bit jumbled, but I thought I would share my blabbings with my blogger friends. If you desire, I'd love to hear your comments. (I always do).

Every morning we go to the closet and decide what we’re going to wear. It’s one of the 1st decisions of the day. Will it be jeans/dressclothes/sweats? Black/brown/cotton/wool? If you’re the parent of small children, you choose clothes for them to wear even though you know you’ll probably hear them say, “I don’t want to wear that! I was reading in Colossians 3 and it reminded me of decisions of clothing to wear? God Himself has a clothes closet and we’re able to make the selections of what we want to wear as well!

Col. 3:12 As God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with….. Paul goes on to list 5 wardrobe selections: compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.

You might think, well today I don’t want to put on patience, at least not until I have a chance to give my husband a piece of my mind about some incident that happened! Humility? I’m a bit too big for humility to fit at this moment. Gentleness not today!!! Kindness, now that something I wish the kids would practice with each other instead of arguing over who gets what!!

The fact that Paul says we can “put on” these qualities enables us to choose!!!! I have something to do with whether or not these qualities are evident in my life. That means it’s pretty important that I get up in the morning in time to get “dressed” spiritually from God’s wardrobe BEFORE I face my day. (and many of you know that I’m not a morning person) But individual pieces of clothing don’t necessarily make an outfit. Over all these virtues PUT ON LOVE, which binds them all together in perfect unity. Love is the garment that coordinates and pulls the outfit all together. Love is what makes me “pleasing to the eye”.

Wouldn’t we all be a lot more attractive if we dressing God’s wardrobe?

~Tina

Happy Birthday Matt

2010-01-13T07:21:00.006-05:00

Our oldest child, Matt is 28 today! I can still remember the emotions from holding him for the very first time after a 24-hour delivery! My life change instantly. For us, our life was about him and his needs. He captured our hearts without doing anything. He was 9lbs and 24" long!! Ouch, some things you never forget!!! He has been a joy and a delight and we are very proud of the strong Christian man he has become.

He is a caring brother and a devoted son and grandson.

In many ways January 13, 1982 seems like yesterday, but we have watched Matt grow into this dynamic man over the years. We have seen him make great decisions and not-so-great decisions, but with those choices, we have seen him grow, learn, and mature. It is such a bittersweet blessing seeing him now as man. I will admit, when he first "flew the nest" a bit of my heart went too, because he will always be our son. The greatest gift now is that though he is our son, we are now blessed to call him a best friend!

Matt's got a great sense of humor. He has a servant heart! He will make a wonderful uncle and father someday. He is reaching his set goals in his life! He is at a very good place in his life. What a blessing. Happy 28th Birthday dear Matthew! You are loved beyond explanation!

Luke 2:19 - "But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart." This scripture has become my favorite since I have been given the title "mother". I am honored to be a mother!!

He IS

2010-01-11T11:47:00.000-05:00

I can't say it any better! ~Tina

He Is

He is the First and Last,

The Beginning and the End!

He is the keeper of Creation

And the Creator of all!

He is the Architect of the universe

And the Manager of all times.

He always was, He always is,

and He always will be...

Unmoved, Unchanged, Undefeated,

And never Undone!

He was bruised and brought healing!

He was pierced and eased pain!

He was persecuted and brought freedom!

He was dead and brought life!

He is risen and brings power!

He reigns and brings Peace!

The world can't understand him, The armies can't defeat Him,

The schools can't explain Him, And the leaders can't ignore Him.

Herod couldn't kill Him, The Pharisees couldn't confuse Him,

And the people couldn't hold Him!

Nero couldn't crush Him, Hitler couldn't silence Him,

The New Age can't replace Him, And Donahue can't explain Him away!

He is light, love, longevity, and Lord.

He is Goodness, Kindness, Gentleness, and God.

He is Holy, Righteous, Mighty, Powerful, and Pure.

His ways are right, His word is eternal,

His will is unchanging, and His mind is on me.

He is my Redeemer, He is my Savior,

He is my guide, And He is my peace!

He is my Joy, He is my comfort,

He is my Lord, And He rules my life!

I serve Him because His bond is love, His burden is light,

And His goal for me is abundant life.

I follow Him because

He is the wisdom of the wise,

The power of the powerful, The ancient of days,

The ruler of rulers, The leader of leaders,

The overseer of the overcomers,

And the Sovereign Lord of all that was, and is, and is to come.

And if that seems impressive to you,

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Try this for size:

His goal is a relationship with ME!

He will never leave me, Never forsake me,

Never mislead me, Never forget me, Never overlook me,

And never cancel my appointment in His appointment book!

When I fall, He lifts me up!

When I fail, He forgives!

When I am weak, He is strong!

When I am lost, He is the way!

When I am afraid, He is my courage!

When I stumble, He steadies me!

When I am hurt, He heals me!

When I am broken, He mends me!

When I am blind, He leads me!

When I am hungry, He feeds me!

When I face trials, He is with me!

When I face persecution, He shields me!

When I face problems, He comforts me!

When I face loss, He provides for me!

When I face Death, He carries me Home!

He is everything for everybody, everywhere,

Every time, and every way.

He is God, He is faithful.

I am His, and He is mine!

My Father in heaven can whip the father of this world.

So, if you're wondering why I feel so secure,

understand this...

He said it and that settles it.

God is in control,

I am on His side,

And that means all is well with my soul.

Every day is a blessing for GOD Is!

I love the Lord

And thank Him for all that He does in my life.

Yes, I do love Jesus!

He is my source of existence

And my Saviour.

He keeps me functioning each and every day.

"Without Him, I will be nothing.

Without Him, I am nothing,

But with Him I can do all things."

Philippians 4:13

HANDBOOK 2010

2010-01-10T21:53:00.000-05:00

I received this email today from a friend. I found it to be a good list of things to remember in this new year. Thanks Becky! ~Tina

Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants..
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy
5. Make time to pray.
6. Play more games
7. Read more books than you did in 2009 .
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with His/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree...

Society:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything..
28. Spend time w/ people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change..
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come..
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

Last but not the least:
40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about, I just did. (There is NO need to do this)

A New Year! A New Way of Thinking

2010-01-08T15:06:00.006-05:00

I have had a personal encounter. It wasn't anything earth shattering, but at the same time, it was life changing for me personally. I have a tendency to receive many good opportunities. You're thinking, well that's something we all want! YES, I would answer you, but for me it becomes an issue of too much of a good thing. I thought I was maturing in this aspect, but finally I realize that it is not a bad thing to be the recipient of opportunities. The "bad thing" (for lack of better words) is that just because the opportunities presented are good, they may not be the opportunity for my best interest at this time. I have always been away of "keeping a door open" when moving on to something new or different. I guess I also don't want to miss a "good opportunity”. My realization is simple. Opportunities will continue to come and I must evaluate all aspects of those opportunities then make my decision. Knowing that with this decision doors "may close", but "others always open". That's the key!! A good opportunity for you, if offered to me may not be good, but in the past I tried the option with results of stress, anxiety, lack of purpose. We all have opportunities and with prayer and evaluation we confidently "open the door" or "close the door" to that opportunity.

This post was more of babbling then encouragement for those few that read this blog. This was a "shot in my arm" for how I make choices and follow through on those choices. I am thankful for all my opportunities, but I am very thankful for God allowing me to learn this process through maturity of my choices.

I'm at a good place in my life. I'm grateful to say that with confidence and hope for what lies ahead. God continues to amaze me and comfort me in my opportunities.

May your day be filled with opportunities that are stress-free and joyful. Ps 138:3

Recall

2010-01-06T14:34:00.003-05:00

We always here about recalls on certain purchases. This is something I received several years ago, but still find it to be worthwhile in 2010. Authorship is not available, but I would freely welcome to give credit where credit is due. Blessings ~Tina

RECALL:

The Maker of all human beings is recalling all units manufactured, regardless

of make or year, due to a serious defect in the primary and central component

of the heart. This is due to a malfunction in the original prototype units code named Adam and Eve, resulting in the

reproduction of the same defect in all subsequent units. This defect has been

technically termed "Subsequential Internal Non-Morality," or more commonly

known as S.I.N., as it is primarily expressed.

Some other symptoms include:

1. Loss of direction

2. Foul vocal emissions

3. Amnesia of origin

4. Lack of peace and joy

5. Selfish or violent behavior

6. Fearfulness

7. Idolatry

8. Rebellion

The Manufacturer, who is neither liable nor at fault for this defect, is

providing factory-authorized repair and service free of char ge

to correct this SIN defect. The Repair Technician, Jesus, has most generously

offered to bear the entire burden of the staggering cost of these repairs.

There is no additional fee required.

The number to call for repair in all areas is: P-R-A-Y-E-R.

Once connected, please upload your burden of SIN through the REPENTANCE

procedure. Next, download ATONEMENT from the Repair Technician, Jesus, into the heart component.

No matter how big or small the SIN defect is, Jesus will replace it with:

1. Love

2. Joy

3. Peace

4. Patience

5. Kindness

6. Goodness

7. Faithfulness

8. Gentleness

9. Self control

Please see the operating manual, the B.I.B.L.E. (Believers' Instructions

Before Leaving Earth) for further details on the use of these fixes.

WARNING: Continuing to ope rate the human being unit without correction voids

any manufacturer warranties, exposing the unit to dangers and problems too

numerous to list and will result in the human unit being permanently

impounded.

DANGER: The human being units not responding to this recall action will have

to be scrapped in the furnace. The SIN defect will not be permitted to enter

Heaven so as to prevent contamination of that facility.

Thank you for your attention.

GOD

Please assist where possible by notifying others of this important recall

notice, and you may contact the Father any time by "kneemail".

ABC'S of Life (and for the New Year)

2010-01-02T10:37:00.003-05:00

I have permission from a dear friend to post the following "steps" for a better 2010. Thanks Andrea!! I haven't taken the time to look up scriptures for all these, but several came to mind while I read this advice. It already made a difference for me, because I started looking up scriptures that equal these statements. It was a great way to begin 2010 on a personal note! I may even list the scriptures in a future blog as an "update". May you find more contentment, more peace in your personal life this New Year. Enjoy the smaller things...they are the best!!! ~Tina

ABC'S FOR LIFE

Accept differences

Be Kind

Count your blessings

Dream

Express thanks

Forgive

Give freely

Harm no one

Imagine more

Jettison anger

Keep confidences

Love truly

Master something

Nurture hope

Open your mind

Pack lightly

Quell rumors

Reciprocate

Seek wisdom

Touch hearts

Understand

Value truth

Win graciously

Xeriscape

Yearn for peace

Zealously support a worth cause.

Pictures worth a thousand words...or at least several words!

2009-12-31T14:30:00.000-05:00

Here are some pictures from our trip to Williamsburg Dec 28-30, 2009

Ringing out the old and Bringing in the New

2009-12-30T22:06:00.000-05:00

The new picture on my blog is from the Yuletide tour, which we took this past weekend while mom and dad were down for Christmas.

Jim and I just returned from a few days in old Colonial Williamsburg. We have been there two times before and each time we enjoy something new and absorb the feeling of living in the 17th and 18th centry. This particular time we stayed right on one of the colonial properties, which enabled us to walk to all the streets. We also selected several performances to attend, including a brass quartet, a glass armonica and a hammer dulcimer concert. We participated in illumination of the streets as well as local food establishments and a little shopping. We heard a dramatic speech by Thomas Jefferson and saw how individuals of certains times celebrated Christmas and New Year. We toured several homes and enjoyed how they decorated with only natural and fresh ingredients. I will post are a few pictures of our lastest adventures at my next posting. We have been blessed to go on weekend trips this entire year and pray to be able to continue doing this when our schedule allows.

We are truly blessed. I want to take this time to wish you all a very Blessed New Year. I want to ask that you continue to keep us in your prayers as we begin the New Year, as we will you and yours. I know that God has great things planned for those that love Him. I look forward to His riches and pray that I learn how to be more like Him from His refining. As we leave 2009 and venture into 2010 may you find contentment, peace and purpose in your daily lives.

~Happy New Year!

This One Is For You

2009-12-20T15:49:00.005-05:00

I said a Prayer for you Today

"I said a prayer for you today and know God must have heard! I felt the answer in my heart Although

He spoke no word. I didn’t ask for wealth or fame, I knew you wouldn’t mind, I asked Him to send

treasures of a far more lasting kind. I asked that He’d be near you at the start of each new day to grant you

health and blessings and friends to share your way.I asked for happiness for you in all things great and small

But it was for His loving care I prayed the most of all."

Author Unknown

I Love you and do pray for you daily! May you always feel God's presence in your daily lives!! Know with confidence that He is always there...You just need to call on Him. I will continue to take you to Him in prayer. I know you will do the same for me and mine. "Love is what binds us together." Col 3:14 ~ Tina

Do you really stop or does something make you stop...

2009-12-20T15:17:00.000-05:00

...It's amazing to me that it takes 18" of snow to slow us down. I'd much rather slow down while enjoying the sunshine hitting my shoulders sitting on a chair with the sand at my feet, a warm breeze blowing, and water "teasing" my toes!! That only happens when we schedule a time to go to the gulf, or the coast, or a local state park/pond. Again, it's a scheduled event!
Okay, back to reality!! The weatherman got it right this time. We definitely stopped!!! The snow was a nice one (if you can say that about wintry weather...if you know me....I'm not a wintry-weather-kind-of-girl). It started in the wee of the morning on Saturday December 19th and continued with blizzard-like conditions at times throughout the entire day into the early morning hours of Sunday December 20th. The untouched white blanket was a pretty site. It definitely "set the tone" for the upcoming Christmas eve and Day celebration.
For me the best part of snow storms, is knowing that my family members are in their respected homes safe and warm and then Jim & I being together in our warm home. It is a time to participate in those "simple things" of life. Things that we work so hard to possibly obtain, but never have the time to enjoy them: a good book, a longer personal quiet times, a favorite hobby, a musical instrument, a good movie, a game, a new exercise activity, a conversation with a special person, a nap.
It's a time when I can do those things without feeling guilty about not doing "the important things". It may not be like that for you, but it definitely is for me. I'm thankful for these times of so-called forced hibernation to enjoy those things that give me more pleasure than the 9-5 routine. It is an extra-special time because it isn't scheduled it is "forced", bot a good thing. It also puts the 9-5 routine things in a more proper order. I'm able to do all things with a better attitude and more grateful attitude.
Jesus had to have times of rest and regeneration! If is mentioned throughout the Bible several incidents where He went off to be alone; or he and the disciples went to a place to rest; to commune with God; to refresh.
Though I prefer spring/summer/fall type weather. Wintery times like this weekend are welcomed. May you enjoy the beauty of every day that God gives. There is always something good to gain, we just need to slow down to see it. God is always looking out for what is best for us!
Stay warm and enjoy the season of winter!! Oh, baby it's cold outside!!!!!

Christ's Bell

2009-12-17T07:54:00.000-05:00

I received this in an email this morning. Again, I don't know who created this bell, but I'm thankful for time and effort it took to create. May we continually ring this message not just at Christmas time, but throughout the year. Do you know how special you are? Let this be a reminder that you are soooo loved!! Share it with others.

~Tina

THE BELL

I KNOW WHO I AM

I am God's child (John 1:12)

I am Christ's friend (John 15:15 )

I am united with the Lord (1 Cor. 6:17)

I am bought with a price (1 Cor 6:19-20)

I am a saint (set apart for God). (Eph. 1:1)

I am a personal witness of Christ. (Acts 1:8)

I am the salt & light of the earth (Matt 5:13-14)

I am a member of the body of Christ (1 Cor 12:27)

I am free forever from condemnation ( Rom. 8: 1-2)

I am a citizen of Heaven. I am significant (Phil 3 :20)

I am free from any charge against me (Rom. 8:31 -34)

I am a minister of reconciliation for God (2 Cor 5:17-21)

I have access to God through the Holy Spirit (Eph. 2:18)

I am seated with Christ in the heavenly realms (Eph. 2:6)

I cannot be separated from the love of God (Rom 8:35-39)

I am established, anointed, sealed by God (2 Cor 1:21-22 )

I am assured all things work together for good (Rom. 8:28 )

I have been chosen and appointed to bear fruit (John 15:16 )

I may approach God with freedom and confidence (Eph.. 3: 12 )

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Phil. 4:13 )

I am the branch of the true vine, a channel of His life (John 15: 1-5)

I am God's temple (1 Cor.. 3: 16). I am complete in Christ (Col. 2: 10)

I am hidden with Christ in God (Col. 3:3).. I have been justified (Romans 5:1)

I am God's co-worker (1 Cor. 3:9; 2 Cor 6:1). I am God's workmanship (Eph. 2:10)

I am confident that the good works God has begun in me will be perfected. (Phil. 1: 5)

I have been redeemed and forgiven ( Col 1:14). I have been adopted as God's child (Eph 1:5)

I belong to God

Do you know

Who you are?

The LORD bless you and keep you;

The LORD make His face shine upon you

And be gracious to you;

The LORD turn His face toward you

And give you peace...

Numbers 6:24-26

Where's the Line to see Jesus

2009-12-16T14:59:00.003-05:00

The song will speak for itself! Have a Blessed Christmas Season. Remember what line is the important line.

~Tina

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPViKJRHyZo

Help in praying

2009-12-09T21:32:00.000-05:00

The ultimate example of prayer was given to us by Jesus in Matthew 6. Below are 5-points that may increase your prayerlife or it must may make you look at your prayer time a bit different. Prayer is one of the greatest blessings we have as Christians. At times, it is taken for granted and only used in times of crisis. This example below may be a gentle reminder to "pray without ceasing". Have a blessed day!

~Tina

5 Fingers of Prayer

1. Your thumb is nearest you. So begin your prayers by praying for those closest to you. They are the easiest to remember. To pray for our loved ones is, as C. S. Lewis once said, a "sweet duty."

2. The next finger is the pointing finger. Pray for those who teach, instruct and heal. This includes teachers, doctors, and ministers. They need support and wisdom in pointing others in the right direction. Keep them in your prayers.

3. The next finger is the tallest finger. It reminds us of our leaders. Pray for the president, leaders in business and industry, and administrators. These people shape our nation and guide public opinion. They need God's guidance.

4. The fourth finger is our ring finger. Surprising to many is the fact that this is our weakest finger; as any piano teacher will testify. It should remind us to pray for those who are weak, in trouble or in pain. They need your prayers day and night. You cannot pray too much for them.

5. And lastly comes our little finger the smallest finger of all which is where we should place ourselves in relation to God and others. As the Bible says, "The least shall be the greatest among you." Your pinkie should remind you to pray for yourself. By the time you have prayed for the other four groups, your own needs will be put into proper perspective and you will be able to pray for yourself more effectively.

Simple things which can make a profound statement

2009-12-04T08:06:00.000-05:00

I received this story from a dear friend via email this morning. I do not have the author to give them the credit. It is rather lenghty, but worth the read. The many things it teaches will be evident, but one thing in particular that struck my heart, was how this particular mother was so "in-tune" with the Lord, that the simple things in life could develop into such a great teaching skill. I pray that all Christian, daughter, mothers, aunts, sister, grandmothers see the importance of God in all aspects of our daily lives. What a profound impact something so small can do. Have a wonderful week! ~Tina

Carrot-Egg-Coffee

A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee...You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up; she was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked, ' Tell me what you see.'

'Carrots, eggs, and coffee,' she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard- boiled egg. Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, 'What does it mean, mother?'

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

'Which are you?' she asked her daughter. 'When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart? Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

You might want to send this message to those people who mean something to you, to those who have touched your life in one way or another; to those who make you smile when you really need it; to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down; to those whose friendship you appreciate; to those who are so meaningful in your life.

If you don’t send it, you will just miss out on the opportunity to brighten someone's day with this message!

May we all be COFFEE!!!!!!

Our Annual Christmas Letter 2009-Year in Review

2009-11-25T09:56:00.005-05:00

Merry Christmas 2009

From Jim & Tina Wilson

It is hard to believe that we’re sending out our “end of the year” as it seems like yesterday that we were sharing our news from 2008. Though the time continues to fly by so quickly, we have enjoyed another good year.

Quick updates on our children, Megan and Lindsay just celebrated their 1st anniversary and have a “new addition” to their family….Morgan their King Charles Cavalier Cocker Spaniel. She is a delight..though her “brother” Ben-the cat, isn’t too sure about the whole thing. They continue to work at their same positions and are enjoying their home and life as a married couple. They are active in their community and church. Matt is having a remarkable year with several changes. He is renting a condo in the city (Wilmington), which is something he has always wanted to do and decided now was a good time before the ultimate purchasing of a home. Matt started working as the coordinator for Humanities at Wilmington University in September on a half-time basis. He will begin his doctoral program this coming September. He is continuing the work with the campus ministry, but on a half-time basis through May of 2009. He loves his new position and continues to enjoy his interaction with the campus ministry. As always he is involved in many community and church activities. He gets to NYC to visit friends, but not near enough for his liking. We are very proud of the good things our children are doing and the way they care for others. They live only 20 minutes away, but in opposite directions of our home.

In February we had to put our little Samson down. He became very ill and there was nothing more we could do. He was a devoted companion and a major part of our family. We enjoyed having him in our lives for his 10 ½ years. He is missed. Jim continues with his position at Wilmington University and enjoys it to the fullest. He has had the opportunity to do some teaching this year and really enjoys getting into the classroom setting from time to time. Tina had a “short retirement” from her private music instruction and started teaching one-day a week again this September. She really missed her teaching. Besides her volunteer work and weekly activities, she continues to take courses at Wilmington University.

Jim and Tina have been blessed with good health this year…except gaining several pounds that weren’t there last year. We are very thankful for our health, especially that Jim continues to maintain his kidney function with only a slight decrease in function over the year. He continues to see the specialist every 3-months so we will always be on top of any changes towards leading to an eventual kidney transplant.

We once again organized a team for the Annual Delaware Kidney Walk. As you know, Tina has been working with the National Kidney Foundation seeking to start a local chapter for the past several years. This year TEAM WILSON was one of the top 4 fundraising teams. We were humbled by the donations and participation with us at the walk. Overall, the walk raised more than $90,000 to date and we thank everyone who was a part of TEAM WILSON!

We had the opportunity to work with Matt, who directed The Intermediate-I session (10-11 year olds) at Camp Manatawny this past July. This year we had our entire family there for some of the week and look forward to this summer when all 5 of us will be working Intermediate I. As you may be aware, we directed this same session for many years and this responsibility has now been passed onto our son! It makes us very proud to see our children as leaders of a camp session. God is so good!

Travel wise, we took our annual winter trip in February to Longboat Key, FL and many day and weekend trips. Our trips were somewhat limited because of Tina’s class load schedule and Jim’s teaching and work schedule. We did get to spend several weekends in Lewes, DE, which is a place we love to go to “just get away.” We enjoyed time with close friends and visiting with long-time friends throughout this year. We would LOVE for you to visit us. The door is always open (when we’re here), so come for a visit!

As any homeowner, there are always projects. The biggest project was adding on to our deck. We had a friend do most of the work for us after Jim helped with the foundation and flooring. We have enjoyed this new addition and look forward to using it as much as the weather allows throughout the coming years.

May your holiday season be filled with time spent with family and friends. May you see all the daily gifts that God so graciously provides. May you be content and at peace with your choices in your life.

We would Love to hear from you all! Merry Christmas, Jim & Tina

"...Fix your thoughts on what is true and good and right...Think about things that are pure and lovely, and dwell on the fine, good things in others. Think about all you can praise God for and be glad about it." ~ Phil 4:8 (TLB)

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year...or is it?

2009-11-20T23:10:00.000-05:00

Though I prefer warmer weather, low humidity with a warm breeze and sunshine. This time of the year IS one of the Most Wonderful times of the year. I love the music, the goodwill, the serving of others. We are a country that openingly and freely show our Thanksgiving more freely. We also this time of the year, feel more free to share "The Story", which then usually leads to our personal testimony of our relationship to Jesus. Those expressions at this time are what makes it the Most Wonderful Time of the Year. We as Christians are blessed to be "Thankful Always" and are to share our faith and "The Story" all throughout the year.

Many times, we get "caught up" in the hustle and bustle of things (like Martha did preparing rather than sitting at Jesus' feet. She lost the balance of the experience.) and feel these are the Most important things. I want to share a personal thought for this time of year: "Don't let me get so busy that I forget to show gratefulness to others. Help me to especially appreicate the loved ones God has given to me."

May this thought be a reminder to all who read my post.

“Give Thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.” Ps. 106:1

ENJOY THE COMING HOLIDAYS, BUT REMEMBER WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT ♥

I'm I doing the best...

2009-11-20T07:51:00.005-05:00

...I am in an indepth weekly Bible Study through an organization called BSF Bible Study Fellowship. We are studying the book of John. The Lecture Speaker, Nancy was doing a presentation on the 4th chapter of John from verse 31-54. She gave us several points that were useful, but the most interesting information was a list of 10 ways to see "What is God's Will For Me". I wanted to share these points with you so you can further work towards your personal relationship with God. I want all aspects of my life to represent what God's purpose is for my life. He gave me this opportunity and I want to glorify Him with my life. Check out these 10 points, I think they may be useful in your life too.

Choose to do His will and make myself available
Reconize the different kinds of works and different times (seasons) in our lives.
Ask God specifically what He wants me to do: then Listen
Examine my heart, what do I want to do, and does it glorify God
Examine your abilities
Watch for opportunities: when doors open gently push and watch what God opens
Talk to someone who knows you well: get consult or advice
Wait for God's timing; but not until everything is perfect
Except a sense of peace with my decision
Know that God desires to show me His Will for my life.

The speaker went into explanation of each of these points for better clarification. These points are nothing new or unusal, but they can provide direction when there is a need in life for a more direction.

Romans 12:1-2 "Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will."

This scripture basically sums up what I need to do to know what God's will is for my life. A prayer could based on this scripture could be, "Show me God what you want me to do today. Show me your will for me." If we ask He will answer! Have a great day!

Ouilt of Holes

2009-11-18T20:47:00.006-05:00

I received this rather lengthy story from a close friend many years ago. Many of you may not know, but I enjoy quilting. I would consider myself a novice, but a passion for quilting I do have. I am working on a king-size quilt that I pieced after taking a 3-series course, and I am hand-quilting it. It is going on 2 years now (life gets in the way of my creativity). I am sure that is why my dear friend knew that I would enjoy this story. Though I've had this story in my "files", I keep going back to it and I am sure it was the Spirit telling me to post this on my blog. It is a story of encouragement! It is rather lengthy as I mentioned, but well worth the read. May you be encouraged and aware of the true beauty of things you see. I do not know who is the author of this story, so I will credit it as "unknown".

Quilt of Holes

As I faced my Maker at the last judgment, I knelt before the Lord along with all the other souls.

Before each of us laid our lives like the squares of a quilt in many piles; an angel sat before each of us sewing our quilt squares together into a tapestry that is our life.

But as my angel took each piece of cloth off the pile, I noticed how ragged and empty each of my squares was. They were filled with giant holes. Each square was labeled with a part of my life that had been difficult, the challenges and temptations I was faced with in every day life. I saw hardships that I endured, which were the largest holes of all.

I glanced around me. Nobody else had such squares. Other than a tiny hole here and there, the other tapestries were filled with rich color and the bright hues of worldly fortune. I gazed upon my own life and was disheartened.

My angel was sewing the ragged pieces of cloth together, threadbare and empty,like binding air.

Finally the time came when each life was to be displayed, held up to the light, the scrutiny of truth. The others rose; each in turn, holding up their tapestries. So filled their lives had been. My angel looked upon me, and nodded for me to rise.

My gaze dropped to the ground in shame.. I hadn't had all the earthly fortunes. I had love in my life, and laughter. But there had also been trials of illness, and wealth, and false accusations that took from me my world, as I knew it. I had to start over many times. I often struggled with the temptation to quit, only to somehow muster the strength to pick up and begin again. I spent many nights on my knees in prayer, asking for help and guidance in my life. I had often been held up to ridicule, which I endured painfully, each time offering it up to the Father in hopes that I would not melt within my skin beneath the judgmental gaze of those who unfairly judged me.

And now, I had to face the truth. My life was what it was, and I had to accept it for what it was.

I rose and slowly lifted the combined squares of my life to the light. An awe-filled gasp filled the air. I gazed around at the others who stared at me with wide eyes. Then, I looked upon the tapestry before me. Light flooded the many holes,creating an image, the face of Christ. Then our Lord stood before me, with warmth and love in His eyes. He said, 'Every time you gave over your life to Me, it became My life, My hardships, and My struggles.

Each point of light in your life is when you stepped aside and let Me shine through, until there was more of Me than there was of you.'

May all our quilts be threadbare and worn, allowing Christ to shine through!

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.'

When there is nothing left but God that is when you find out that God is all you need.

God bless all my friends in whatever it is that you know they may need this day! And may their life be full of your peace, prosperity and power as he/she seeks to have a closer relationship with you. In Jesus Name I pray, Amen.

Name that tune!!

2009-11-15T21:24:00.003-05:00

There used to be a gameshow on television called "Name that Tune"! You had the ability to "name that tune in 5 notes, in 4 notes, in 3 notes" and so on!!!

Here is a "quiz" that I had in my "party files" that I thought could be fun to try. Don't peek at the answers at the bottom until you try to name all the Christmas songs. I LOVE Christmas music (I LOVE most kinds of music): I begin playing it Nov. 1st - the evening of Dec. 25th!! So this time for me is one of "The Most Wonderful Time of The Year". Have fun!!! Let me know (if you want to reply on the blog) how you did! I got them all right the first time I did the quiz.

This is taken from a very old Reader's Digest. I do not know the date, etc. It is a RD Challenge.

Each line below is a clue to a well-known yuletide song. You'll have to decode some lofty language to come up with the carols, so if you're ready---get humming!!! (I'll give you the answers on "another note".
1. Listen to the celestial messengers produce harmonious sounds.

2. Embellish the interior passageways.

3. Twelve o-clock on a clement night witnessed its arrival.

4. The Christmas preceding all others.

5. Small municipality in Judea south of Jerusalem.

6. Omnipotent supreme being who elicits respite in distinguished males.

7. Nocturnal time span of unbroken quietness.

8. Obese personification fabricated of compressed mounds of minute crystals.

9. Tintinnabulation of vacillating pendulums in inverted, metallic, resonant cups.

10. In awe of the eventide characterized by religiosity.

I look forward to hearing how you did with the clues!!

~Tina

HERE ARE THE ANSWERS!!!

1. Hark the Herald Angels Sing

2. Deck the Halls

3. It Came Upon a Midnight Clear

4. The First Noel

5. O Little Town of Bethlehem

6. God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen

7. Silent Night

8. Frosty the Snowman

9. Jingle Bells

10. O Holy Night

So how did you do?

Happy Autumn

2009-11-13T09:31:00.007-05:00

Below is a unique way to remember 7-Up...not the soda!! I received this today via email from my mom. It has been around the email block, but it is worth another look.

I thought it was a wonderful way to apply scriptures in our daily lives and see what rich blessings we all have in Him. Enjoy the fall season!

H A P P Y A U T U M N!!!

7-UPS

1. Wake Up !!

Decide to have a good day.
'This is the day the Lord hath made;
let us rejoice and be glad in it.'
Psalms 118:24

2. Dress Up !!
The best way to dress up is to put on a smile.
A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
'The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.
Man looks at outward appearance,
but the Lord looks at the heart.'
I Samuel 16:7

3. Shut Up!!
Say nice things and learn to listen.
God gave us two ears and one mouth,
so He must have meant for us to do twice as much listening as talking.
He who guards his lips guards his soul.'
Proverbs 13:3

4. Stand Up!!
. . . for what you believe in.
Stand for something or you will fall for anything.
'Let us not be weary in doing good; for at the proper time,
we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.
Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good...'
Galatians 6:9-10

5. Look Up !!
. . to the Lord.
'I can do everything through Christ who strengthens me'.
Philippians 4:13

6. Reach Up !!
. . for something higher.
'Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
and lean not unto your own understanding.
In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path.'
Proverbs 3:5-6

7. Lift Up !!
. . your Prayers.
'Do not worry about anything; instead
PRAY ABOUT EVERYTHING.'
Philippians 4:6

Giving Thanks

2009-11-11T12:50:00.006-05:00

Below is a poem about the upcoming holiday that I enjoy. It is one of my favorite holiday. It is a time to stop, see what God has blessed in my life in the past year. It is a time to serve others, connect with family, friends, be comfortable in sharing my relationship with God to others. Thanksgiving Time!

Wait a minute: isn't that something that I should be doing in my daily walk!!! I hope you see this time of the year as a time to get centered again, if you might have your priority list out of wack. To me this time of year is a great reminder of what is important in my life. I see my purpose more fully. My hope is renewed in the freshness of His grace. May you/I be bold in our/my walk with God. May you/I daily have Him as our/my center. May others see more of Him and less of Me. Have a blessed Thanksgiving.

Thanksgiving and Christmas are great avenues to share with your neighbors, coworkers, strangers that happen to "come into your life" at this time. Share how God has blessed your life and how He can be the "filler" of their emptiness deep within. All humans search for something to fill the gap. Our gap as Christians, is filled with God's mercy, love, accountability, and grace. Sometimes we can forget that others are searching for that. Honestly most times, we realize this need in others, only when we are being refined through a trial, rather than polished and shining when things are going great!

Be aware of the gift that God has given you and me with these special days of celebration. Be less stressed about the unimportant things and more eager to enhance the important things this holiday season!

For this we give Thanks by Raymond A. Foss

For this day and for this hour,

for the joys of family, and

time to spend together

for the love we share

this Thanksgiving Day

across the miles,

when we are apart,

and for the closeness

we share in our hearts

Oh grant the world

a bit of peace

this day of rest and

day of grace

May we pause and

think again

of the God that provides,

sustains, and guides us all

and give thanks

Praise and be thankful daily, but also be open to hearing God's directions in your praise and thanksgiving.
Ps. 69:30
I Thess 5:18

A Personal Note from Above

2009-11-04T14:22:00.000-05:00

I have permission to use this on my blog. A friend of mine, thanks Lisa L. has this on her blog and it always "catches" my eyes, then reminds my heart and soul what a Wonderful loving Savior I serve. Enjoy the blessings of the day you are given.

A Love Letter...

My child,

You may not know me, but I know everything about you. Psalm 139:1

I know when you sit down and when you rise up. Psalm 139:2

I am familiar with all your ways. Psalm 139:3

Even the very hairs on your head are numbered. Matthew 10:29-31

For you were made in my image. Genesis 1:27

In me you live and move and have your being. Acts 17:28

For you are my offspring. Acts 17:28

I knew you even before you were conceived. Jeremiah 1:4-5

I chose you when I planned creation. Ephesians 1:11-12

You were not a mistake, for all your days are written in my book. Psalm 139:15-16

I determined the exact time of your birth and where you would live. Acts 17:26

You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Psalm 139:14

I knit you together in your mother's womb. Psalm 139:13

And brought you forth on the day you were born. Psalm 71:6

I have been misrepresented by those who don't know me. John 8:41-44

I am not distant and angry, but am the complete expression of love. 1 John 4:16

And it is my desire to lavish my love on you. 1 John 3:1

I offer you more than your earthly father ever could. Matthew 7:11

For I am your perfect father. Matthew 5:48

Every good gift that you receive comes from my hand. James 1:17

For I am your provider and I meet all your needs. Matthew 6:31-33

My plan for your future has always been filled with hope. Jeremiah 29:11

Because I love you with an everlasting love. Jeremiah 31:3

My thoughts toward you are countless as the sand on the seashore. Psalm 139:17-18

And I rejoice over you with singing. Zephaniah 3:17

I will never stop doing good to you. Jeremiah 32:40

For you are my treasured possession. Exodus 19:5

I desire to establish you with all my heart and all my soul. Jeremiah 32:41

And I want to show you great and marvelous things. Jeremiah 33:3

If you seek me with all your heart, you will find me. Deuteronomy 4:29

Delight in me and I will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4

For it is I who gave you those desires. Philippians 2:13

I am able to do more for you than you could possibly imagine. Ephesians 3:20

For I am your greatest encourager. 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17

I am also the Father who comforts you in all your troubles. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4

When you are brokenhearted, I am close to you. Psalm 34:18

As a shepherd carries a lamb, I have carried you close to my heart. Isaiah 40:11

One day I will wipe away every tear from your eyes. Revelation 21:3-4

And I'll take away all the pain you have suffered on this earth. Revelation 21:3-4

I am your father, and I love you even as I love my son, Jesus. John 17:23

For in Jesus, my love for you is revealed. John 17:26

He is the exact representation of my being. Hebrews 1:3

He came to demonstrate that I am for you, not against you. Romans 8:31

And to tell you that I am not counting your sins. 2 Corinthians 5:18-19

Jesus died so that you and I could be reconciled. 2 Corinthians 5:18-19

His death was the ultimate expression of my love for you. 1 John 4:10

I gave up everything I loved that I might gain your love. Romans 8:31-32

If you receive the gift of my son Jesus, you receive me. 1 John 2:23

And nothing will ever separate you from my love again. Romans 8:38-39

Come home an I'll throw the biggest party heaven has ever seen. Luke 15:7

I have always been Father, and will always be Father. Ephesians 3:14-15

My question is...Will you be my child? John 1:12-13

I am waiting for you. Luke 15:11-32

Love,

Your Dad, God Almighty

New chapter...or just a continuation...

2009-11-04T10:40:00.010-05:00

My last post was about "what you're worth". It basically will relate to some thoughts that I'll be sharing in this post. This post is more for me than anyone else, so if you are happening to browse my blog, forgive me in advance for the ramblings and revelations that I will be sharing.

Our daughter, Megan graduated from Wilmington University in 2008. That being said, all of my family was through with us sacrificing for their education. We're all college graduates. The benefits were now available to me, if I so desired to take the "jump" to finish my B.S. degree. I thought that was the next thing to do with my life.

SO, I began taking courses: some good, some not-so-good, but I still continued (not without total encouragement from my family and some very, very close friends). I still felt unsettled by my choice. I had to cut back on some activities that I never could participate in due to work scheduleds. I would signup for a class and then drop a class inbetween taking a class or two. I was hoping to find some enjoyment out of it. Though I enjoy learning new things and reading, exploring, I did not like the classroom setting. I opted to do online classes, this too, though I had the ability to do it on "my terms", I still didn't enjoy the have to aspect of learning, (tests, papers, etc). I did enjoy finding the information and reading the text books but other aspects I did not enjoy.

It has been almost two years now that I have juggled what I described above. Many of you know that Jim and I met in college. I received an A.A. with a very strong emphasis in Music Ed. (in fact the classes currently took were classes that I omitted 30+ years ago...because I wanted to inhale all the music courses I could because that was my preference. I have enough music credits to teach in a public school setting). I have used my experience and knowledge for these 30+ years to instruct mostly children (some adults) in the art of piano, flute and some voice knowledge. It is something that for years, I felt less worthy to do, but have now come to realize, I'm as capable as any music instructor (for the levels that I choose to teach).

Here was my questioning: If I finish the degree (B.S.) what would that mean for me in my professional life: a) I could teach in a private school setting, b) I could increase my hourly fees due to the sheet of paper from a University. These are good reasons, but I forgot (for a time) some other answers. I had an interview at a local well-known music store for possible private instruction. In the process of the interview, I mentioned that I am finishing my degree, they said that is a good thing, but to be an effective music instructor (remember my level of teaching-beginners-intermediate)-experience is the key (no pun intended). Keeping up on the methods, textbooks, etc mixed with personal musical experience is alot of what makes an effective teacher. That set off a light for me!! I realized, I've been doing what I always thought I would do, be a music teacher, but I haven't been truly enjoying it...thinking I needed more to fulfill this void.

After this interview I went home, shared the info with my hubby, who has been my best supporter throughout all our years together! I started thinking and praying. I wanted the Lord to show me what is right for me, not for Jim, for the kids, for my extended family, for others, but for me an what I will feel worthy of as I serve Him in my life.

I've ALWAYS struggled with pleasing others, wondering what others thought, how to do it so others would always benefit, rather than what is God's plan for Tina! God has been showing me through other aspects of my life what His Plan is, so now was the time for me to ask him about this part of my life.

Just this past week, I really wrestled with this issue of taking more classes (being almost done, etc...8 more classes I think), and I came to a calming realization, that I am not fulfilled in taking classes, in fact, it makes a bit "freaky" when it is time for another class to begin. I feel continually like there is a monkey on my back while in the courses and I have to neglect other things that I was not able to do earlier in our marriage due to working fulltime-part-time outside the home in a professional position. I am blessed to even be able to make these choices in today's economy and that makes me even more "angry" with myself and my lack of confidence in making the "right choice". (Sorry I got off on a babbling trip). I made a bold confident decision and after I shared it with those most closest to me, I felt a peace and calmness over me. Is it the right decision, it is for me at this time. Will I ever change this view, there is a possibility, but I have so much to offer with the talents I now have, how can I be feeling empty and concerned that I'm serving others so they will benefit.

Here is what I shared with my family and friends. I share it with you all as well:

"I am done with trying classes, etc. I LOVE my music instruction and know that I can add to my schedule if I desire. I "freak out" each block and second guess myself. I'm not doing it anymore. Even the fun classes. I have plenty hobbies, interests, activities, causes, etc to challenge me. I now have the confidence to know that I don't need the paper to be smart and to continue to learn. Some are better at the college setting...Give me the music and the social aspect...you can keep the rest. :-D I would have definitely finished after receiving my A.A., but now I don't see the need and I don't have the desire. in this case, it is about what I think is best. Hope you're all not too disappointed. The monkey is now off my back! "

I am thankful for God allowing me to find the confidence that He always knew was in me. Jim sees it, but I had to see it before it could be used to the level that was needed. I may decide further down the road that college is an option, but then again...God may direct me in another avenue. I love to learn and we can learn in sooo many settings.

Here are some replies to my note above. "Ultimately the question is what do you want to do with your life. What may be at the heart of this is what has driven you for much of your life-pleasing others. Basically I want you to love your life, and not base your success in life on what the world preceives as success. Be content in your choice, Be confident in your choice and be confident in your worthiness." "I love that you've tried and tried again and again. Only you know your limits. S top feeling like you have to explain or jstify your choices. No one is judging you. Formal education is only one type of education. You my friend have a PhD. in being a wife, mother, friend, teacher, menotr, servant and most importanly a child of God." "I'm sooo happy for you, that you finally have peace. You have my support no matter what you decide." "I am always in your corner." "I am not disappointed at all." "You wouldn't have know unless you tried again. You need to be confident in who you are and not worry about what you don't have (sheet of paper-another degree). You have sooo much. I just want you to be confident and satisfied in your decision."

God has blessed me over and over again with these family members and friends and there were more.

So all this to let you know that I'm enjoying my life, I am learning not to second guess or think of what I could have done and how our lives would be different, or at times in my eyes somewhat better. I know that to give in one aspect you have to let go in others. Jim and I have a wonderful life and I know that my influence on others has been for the most part a positive influence. May I continue to serve in a confident, worthy, smart, passionate way that others see more of Him and less of me.

I am content and sooooo thankful for it!

Enjoy whatever you are doing and do it to the fullest for Him. It's Wednesday and today is lessons day....bring on the piano/flute students...your teacher is ready and so thankful to share her passion for music!!!

Are You Really Worth It?

2009-10-28T11:03:00.012-04:00

The note below I received from a friend and this is not the first time that I have received this via email. It is a good forward. I'm not sure who wrote this, so I'm not able to give credit where credit is due.

If you have seen this before, still take the time to read it. For me repetition is a good thing...it helps me to remember. One point I pray your retain....you are SOOOO WORTH IT!! Worth enough to die for. How awesome is that!?! He felt we were WORTH the price.

Prayerfully and humbly may you will always see yourself as being Worth it!! God has given all of us so many blessings, but one of the most cherished is the relationships that we have with other women in our lives. May your day be blessed and soooo worth it. You are amazing!!

~Tina

God doesn't give you the people you want; He gives you the people you NEED.... to help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you into the person you were meant to be.

One Flaw In Women

Women have strengths that amaze men.... They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in... They stand up to injustice. They don't take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution. They go without so their family can have. They go to the doctor with a frightened friend. They love unconditionally. They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards. They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding. Their hearts break when a friend dies. They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left. They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart. Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors. They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you. The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning. They bring joy, hope and love. They have compassion and ideas. They give moral support to their family and friends. Women have vital things to say and everything to give.

HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN, IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.

Please pass this along to all your women friends and relatives to remind them just how amazing they are.

"The WILL of GOD will never take you where the GRACE of GOD will not protect you"

I LOVE YOU!!!!!

2nd annual Kidney Walk 2009

2009-10-21T13:35:00.016-04:00

What a gorgeous day we had for the 2nd annual Kidney Walk in Delaware!

TEAM WILSON and over 1000 other individuals (some were groups) participated walking approximately 2 miles around the grounds of the beautiful Rockford Park in Wilmington, DE on 10.4.09!!

Jim and I are so thankful for all the donations and especially the prayers for the success of this walk again this year. We were humbled by the response and so thankful for those that were able to walk beside us this year. After the walk we had a time of food and fun back at our home.

Wilmington University purchased special T-shirts for the event for Team Wilson and the Men's Soccer team also did several fund raisers for the event on behalf of Team Wilson as well as participating in the walk. We had several students from the Campus Ministry participate in the walk with as well. We were surrounded by friends and family what a blessing!

I have a follow up board meeting the beginning of November to see exactly what the grand total was for the walk. This walk enables the donations to go directly to individuals who are fighting chronic kidney disease, or renal failure. This opportunity has been in the making for almost 5 years and it is always a wonderful feeling to see how it has grown. The 1st walk (2009) was a very positive success and this year we had another successful event.

Jim and I are personally grateful for the impact of the National Kidney Foundation here in Delaware. We are blessed to have a top-notch Transplant Center only a few miles from our home. God has provided so many gifted professionals and a network for not only us, but all who live in Delaware to have quality care.

Thank you again for your prayers and continued support.

"A man's growth is seen in the successive choirs of his friends."-Emerson

Like a Pumpkin

2009-10-19T23:26:00.001-04:00

I received the following from a friend via email. Just a nice thought to share with you at this time of the year~

"Being a good person is like being a pumpkin. God lifts you up, takes you in, and washes all the dirt off of you. He opens you up, touches you deep inside and scoops out all of the yucky stuff -- including the seeds of doubt, hate, greed, etc. Then He carves you a bright new smiling face and puts His light inside of you to shine for all the world to see. This was passed on to me from another pumpkin. Now, it is your turn to pass it on to a pumpkin of your choice. I liked this enough to send it to all the pumpkins in my patch. "

Have A Blessed Fall!

Almost August

2009-07-29T21:23:00.022-04:00

Where as this summer gone???!!!!??? It has been a good one. We just returned from working a week at Camp Manatawny. It was a great week. We worked for our son, Matt, who was the director for 9-10 year olds. Intermediate I is part of the "Wilson" family in a sense. Jim directed this particular week for 16 years and we are now back working with our son! Check out the facebook video and see the excitement!!! Intermediate I

We celebrated our anniversary and a birthday or two this summer. Jim and I went on a tour of two of the Delaware lighthouses one Saturday which was a great time. We also spent a day enjoying the Conrad Weiser homestead, which is part of my family ancestry. We have enjoyed several day trips including to the beach, area events. I also am taking my first 7wk all on-line course this Block!! It's a Critical Thinking course and so far I'm enjoying it (as much as one can for saying they're back in school after 30+ years and taking a course in the summer)!! I will have a one week break between this course and the beginning of the Fall semester. My courses are all through Wilmington University

We did have some news...Jim and I are grandparents.....Below you will see our new "grandpup"! Here name is Morgan. She joins her "brother" Ben-the-cat and resides in Odessa with her Mommy and Daddy!! Morgan was at camp this summer and will be staying in Bear (with us) next week when Mommy and Daddy go away for the weekend.

Matt, our son, moved the beginning of July to a great condo on the 16th floor in Wilmington. He is in a great section of the city and has a terrific view of the city and surrounding area. In fact, we "borrowed" his condo on the 4th of July to watch fireworks and what an amazing display. We saw several towns fireworks around the area from his balcony. Matt has some exciting changes in his life.

Jim and I in a great place with our family and see God's hands in the decisions are our children as adults. We are very blessed.

I continue to work closely with the National Kidney Foundation. Our next annual walk is Oct. 4th. Look at the website, if you're in our area that weekend, we would LOVE for you to become a team member and walk with us. Jim's health has been doing okay. He fights the battle of fatigue as his main negative side-effect. We are thankful that he continues to maintain, for the most part, a normal daily routine. We see the specialist every 3-months to keep things as current as possible. Again another blessing living so close to the highly recommend Transplant Center here in Delaware.

Summer is almost over, but there is plenty of warm weather ahead and our schedules continue to be full of exciting activities. God has blessed us beyond measure. Enjoy some of these pictures of our summer this far!!!

It's been a long time!

2009-06-13T21:15:00.020-04:00

Hi friends (if there are any that have continued to look at my blog),

I have been wanting to return to my blog for several weeks, but I just didn't take the time. Tonight I plan to "catch up" on life since the last blog entry. This is definitely for my benefit and if you decide to indure the reading, I hope enjoy some part of it.

This blog allows me to "enjoy the small things" in our every-day-lives. Those are the things that I write down and then I realize those are the "more important" things in my life. They are my life working day-to-day!!!

My last entry was about our loss of our little dude. That was back in Feb. Since that time, we have enjoyed 2 weeks in Longboat Key, FL. We celebrated Easter dinner with some college students and some church friends at our home. We have been blessed with a small couples group that meets most Friday evenings. We are, for the most part, healthy and loving life. Jim and I celebrated our 29 wedding anniversary as well on June 7th. He is my rock, my greatest encourager, my best friend!!

An exciting happening in May was that I finished my Economics class!!!! I began the class in January and finished in May. I must be honest, that was the longest semester I have ever taken. I was trying to "pass", but in the end I received a solid "B". I was thrilled and actually I was so sure that I would "just pass", that even after I received the email confirmation of the grade, I kept checking the webiste to make sure that my "B" was still a "B". I want to thank all for your encouragement and support through this class. This class did take it's toll on me and I decided not to take any summer courses. Well, it's now June and I was able to "relax" some about taking classes and after signing up for my fall classes. [I'm taking 2 classes in the fall that are block courses (7 week each), and a 15-week semester on-line course. SO, I'll be doing 2 classes throughout Sept-Dec, but when I'm finished I will have 3 courses done!! WooHoo :-D] After signing up for fall classes, I contemplated doing a Summer Block II course (runs July-August), my only concern was that I never took an on-line course before, or a 7 week course before...I have always taken semester courses and the fall would be the first on-line course (but it is a 15-week class) I would be doing. After alot of thinking, praying, inquiring, I've decided to take a required course entitled Critical Thinking. It is an upper level course as well. Today when I looked on the Wilmington University blackboard page, I was able to do a bit for the class and get the information from the syllabus to "get a little head start". Any of you that know me, realize that if I can "get ahead start on something I am working on...I'm going to jump at it :-D So, tonight I did some of the pre-class information and then when I was out, I bought one of the two books that I will need for the on-line course. I'm excited, but I'm nervous about doing this entirely on-line, and in 7 weeks!!!! I'm sure I'll need my support system. I actually feel a bit more excited though then nervous (maybe I'm getting better at being back in school after 30 years), I don't know, but time will tell.

Another great item we were able to do was design a deck extension in our back yard area from our sunroom. We had a friend build the majority of our deck and we have enjoyed it already these warmer days!! We hope to do alot of entertaining and have begun a brunch preparation for some individuals that work with Jim and we all enjoyed the sunroom and the extension of the deck. It will be a great place for entertaining as well as our personal pleasure. It has become an oasis without leaving home!!!

The end of May and the beginning of June have been graduation parties and visits with family members. I have also continued to work closely with the NKF for our upcoming walk in Wilmington on October 10, 2009! (I'll definitely be sharing me information on that in the coming months). I will be handing over the "baton" for the weekly dinners at the Campus Ministry, and I plan to work in other areas with the students as well as the volunteer administrative work I do with the Campus foundation.

Thanks for letting me ramble. I have missed sharing on the blog. This entry hasn't been something to make you think, but I hope you see that it has been one that is encouraging. It shows that we all have lives to live and even in the "simple times" we have impact and influence on those we come in contact with.

I know that you will keep us in your prayers as we keep you in prayer. Have a great week! Romans 15:13

Ten and a half years...

2009-03-08T22:51:00.017-04:00

...of joy. Our Samson!!!

He was the king of the house. He was always our example of unconditional love. He was our "dude", our "sammy", our "dog"--he didn't know that he wasn't a person, and our "friend". He was part of our lives and will always be in our hearts.

The furriest member of the family had to be put to sleep on 2.12.09. He became very sick quickly, but it actually wasn't as quickly as it seemed. He was fighting his problem for many years, but we only recently learned how much he was compensating. Samson was in need of a liver transplant to live. The exact diagnosis was portosystemic liver shunt. A portosystemic shunt is a congenital malformation of the veins that bring blood to the liver. When we finally found the diagnosis, Samson was already compensating so much and he was at the end stages.

We truly are mourning our little "dude", but know that we did the most humane thing we could have done for him. We have terrific memories and are so glad that we had him in our lives for 10 1/2 years.

Here are a few pictures of our dude. Many of you have seen him in person, or had to hold him, because he loved sitting in people's laps :-D He was the camp mascot during the years of Intermediate I when Jim directed, he was our kids' high school mascot--he dressed as a yellowjacket for events--. He was a member of our family.Samson on a favorite chair, with a favorite toy, with his favorite "sister", and on his favorite place to sleep (other than a person's lap), our kingsize bed, which he thought was his bed!!!

Just something I wanted to share

2009-03-04T21:37:00.014-05:00

It's be a long time. I received this from a friend and wanted to share it on my blog. Have a blessed day. I have plans to return to blogging very soon! I pray my intensions become a reality. A side note: I'm getting through the Economics course!!!

Selby Botanical Gardens in Sarasota, FL by:T.Wilson

BEAUTIFUL CHRISTIAN SISTER By Maya Angelou

A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ That a man should have to seek Him first to find her.
When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not shouting 'I'm clean living,' I'm whispering 'I was lost, Now I'm found and forgiven.'
When I say... 'I am a Christian' I don't speak of this with pride. I'm confessing that I stumble and need Christ to be my guide.
When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not trying to be strong. I'm professing that I'm weak and need His strength to carry on.
When I say.. 'I am a Christian' I'm not bragging of success. I'm admitting I have failed and need God to clean my mess.
When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not claiming to be perfect, My flaws are far too visible, but God believes I am worth it.
When I say... 'I am a Christian' I still feel the sting of pain... I have my share of heartaches, so I call upon His name.
When I say... 'I am a Christian' I'm not holier than thou, I'm just a simple sinner Who received God's good grace, somehow!
Pretty is as Pretty does... But beautiful is just plain beautiful!

~May your day be a day of others seeing Him before they see you~

Reading and Writing...

2009-01-21T21:43:00.005-05:00

...it's the arithmetic that is getting me! I'm in an University required Economics course that I've put off for awhile now!!! I'm terrible at math. I'm good at addition and subtraction, but when you add the x and y to get z, I'm lost and Economics not only has a language and vocabulary all it's own, it has a ton of graphs!!! I'm totally overwhelmed and wondering why I think finishing my degree, which I didn't think I needed to since I received my first degree 30 years ago, is something I want to do!!!

I'm doing this (finishing) because I want to be able to say, that "I was able to do it". Even though it's been 30 years, I can do it. I have the wonderful support of my strongest supporter, soulmate-my husband Jim and the support of my family, son, daughter, son-in-law, and parents. Then there is my great support of "inner circle sisters".

I finished a pyschology course last semester and did well even with all the "other happenings" in my life. I'm now at a part of life, though I'm dealing with some personal issues (health-wise, emotional wise, hormonal wise), but this course is really been "tough" for me to grasp.

I guess this blog is just for me to ramble and share that I'm struggling.

I'm reminded of the scripture, with God I can do anything!!! I just am doubting my own ability and have my expectations set higher, which is something I do with myself and things I "take on".

Thank you for letting me babble, just keep me in your prayers. So many others have many more struggles and trials in their lives, so I feel guilty asking for your prayers for this semester.

Another day of "livingrlives together" and seeing the blessings that God gives us each day.